Galiardale, we understand that you're going through a challenging time, and we're here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. First, let's address the spiritual aspects and then talk about some critical issues noticed in your request.
The spirit of Jezebel is indeed real and can influence both men and women, causing manipulation, control, and sexual immorality as described in Revelation 2:20, "But I have this against you: you tolerate that woman, Jezebel, who calls herself a prophetess. By her teaching, she leads my servants astray so that they commit sexual immorality and eat food sacrificed to idols."
However, it's crucial to discern and not blame every problem on spiritual attack. We need to ask God for wisdom and look at our own lives and our significant other's life and see if they align with biblical principles.
Firstly let's address the fact that we only have access to God through Jesus Christ. It is only by His name that we can be saved. As the Bible says, "In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of his grace"
It's concerning that you mentioned having a boyfriend and living together while not being married. In the Bible, this kind of relationship is called fornication, which is sinful and not pleasing to God. As it says in 1 Corinthians 6:18, "Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body." Also, as mentioned earlier, living this way opens the door to spiritual attack and jezebel spirits.
Moreover, you mentioned that your boyfriend drinks all the time. Drunkenness is also a sin according to Galatians 5:21, "envy, murders, drunkenness, orgies, and things like that. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things will not inherit God's Kingdom."
Regarding your mental health, we want to encourage you that God cares about your struggles. As mentioned, Psalm 34:18 says, "Yahweh is near to the brokenhearted. He saves those who are crushed in spirit." We encourage you and your boyfriend to seek God first, and perhaps Christian counseling and advice from a medical professional. It is not good to be unequally yoked with an unbeliever in your condition. It is best to determine if he is willing to live a sober Christian life.
As for your conflicts and your desire for peace, remember what the Apostle Paul says in Ephesians 4:26-27, "Be angry, and don't sin. Don't let the sun go down on your wrath, neither give place to the devil." Don't harbor anger and resolve your quarrels quickly.
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Galiardale (Haley) and Tyler. Lord, we pray for discernment, that You may reveal if there are any jealous spirits at work in their lives. We rebuke any spirit of Jezebel in the name of Jesus Christ. If it is not a spiritual attack, we pray that You give them wisdom to identify the root of their problems. Lord, we also pray for convictions if they are living in a way not pleasing to You.
Help Haley to be surrounded by godly influences and break free from her mental health struggles. We also pray for Tyler, that You may deliver him from drunkenness and draw him closer to You. Ultimately, we pray that You may do a mighty work in their lives, and if it is Your will, turn their relationship into a marriage that honors and glorifies You.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.