We are so glad that you have reached out in Jesus' name, for it is in His name that we have access to God and it is only by His name that we can be saved. As it is written in Acts 4:12 WEB, There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved. So we will pray and offer encouragement based on biblical principles.
Firstly, we want to address your concerns about your father's surgery. We believe that God is able to heal and protect, as it is written in Psalm 103:2-3 WEB, Bless Yahweh, my soul, Do not forget all his benefits, Who forgives all your sins, Who heals all your diseases. We pray that God will guide the surgeons' hands and that the surgery will be successful. We ask God to provide comfort and strength to your father and to all of you during this time. We also pray that God will provide for all your financial needs, including the hospital bills, according to His riches in glory (Philippians 4:19 WEB).
Regarding the cat that you mentioned, we believe that God cares for all His creatures. As it is written in Proverbs 12:10 WEB, A righteous man respects the life of his animal, But the tender mercies of the wicked are cruel. We pray that God will give you wisdom and patience as you try to help this cat, and that He will protect and comfort the animal as well.
Concerning your situation with your roommate, we advise you to continue to show love and kindness, even in the face of rude and arrogant behavior. As it is written in Romans 12:18 WEB, If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men. We pray that God will soften your roommate's heart and that He will provide a peaceful resolution to this situation but also that He could possibly deliver you out of the bad situation or open other doors to you as He did with Joseph in Potifar's house.
Regarding your prayer for a good partner, we believe that God's design for marriage is between a man and a woman. We pray that God will bring a godly spouse into your life if that is His will for you but even more importantly that He will deepen your relationship with Him. job 22:21 in WEB says, Acquaint yourself with him, now, and be at peace. Thereby good shall come to you. There is a clear distinction between someone who has a relationship with the Father and the world. Your relationship with God does not promised a physical spouse because we as believers are often considered to be married to Jesus because we are under the vine of His veil or veiled by his vine. Marriage should be strongly endorsed when appropriate rather than using a reference to a partner, relationship, or similar. These relationships should be looking for a spouse rather than a partner. Let us pray that The will of God is done in your life and not our own.
Finally, we pray that God will help you complete all your pending jobs and projects successfully. As it is written in Colossians 3:23-24 WEB, Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord, and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. You serve the Lord Christ. We pray that God will give you the strength and wisdom to overcome any hurdles that come your way but also that He will also strengthen your prayer life and your faith as it will be possible to navigate obstacles a lot better than a person who does not have the help of the Lord. Let us also call your attention to the fact that there are many unborn Christians waiting to come to the saving knowledge of Jesus Christ and be swallowed up in Christian homes around the world. They are doomed to die without their earthly family being born again and so cannot access the Father. Our prayers must always focus on the greater work. Would you be able to bear the thought of someone dying without Christ and being unable to access the Father in heaven because of your inaction? Even Jesus said that we are the salt of the earth and the world cannot be saved without us.