Firstly, we are thankful that you have reached out for prayer and guidance.
We need to be in agreement that Jesus is the way the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except by Him. We have one mediator between us and God and that is Jesus Christ. Within that understanding, we need to address your requests and rebuke you about some of the issues in your request.
Let's address your financial situation and the car loan you're seeking. While it's understandable to desire a car, it's crucial to align our desires with God's will and trust in His timing. The Bible tells us in Matthew 6:33 WEB, But seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well. This will help you manage your desires and requests to the Lord. Instead of focusing on a car loan, let's pray for God's provision and wisdom in managing your finances.
Moreover, we can see the burden you are feeling with your finances and your family. The Bible tells us in Second Thessalonians 3:10 WEB, For even when we were with you, we commanded you this: If anyone is not willing to work, neither let him eat. And Similarly 1 Timothy 5:8, But if anyone does not provide for his own, and stell more especially his household, he has denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever. If your son and daughter in law are believers, then they should be responsible. And 2 Corinthians 12:14 WEB, Behold, the third time I am ready to come to you, and I will not be a burden to you; for I seek not your possessions, but you. For the children ought not to save up for the parents, but the parents for the children.
Concerning the financial burden you're experiencing, we encourage you to trust in God's provision and follow biblical principles of stewardship, and rebuke your family for being out of line with those biblical principles. Drawing from Matthew 6:25 WEB Therefore I tell you, don't be anxious for your life: what you will eat, or what you will drink; nor yet for your body, what you will wear. Isn't life more than food, and the body more than clothing?
Regarding your request for counselling, let us point you in the direction of scriptures and then pray for your discernment to find answers and guidance for your daily life and decisions. We should meditate on His Word to renew our minds and transform our lives, as said in Romans 12: 2, Don't be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God.
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our beloved in prayer. Lord, we ask for Your guidance and wisdom in managing finances. Help them to trust in Your provision and timing. We pray for Your tender loving kindness, His mercy, and Your comfort for peace of mind about family and possessions, we rebuke their children in Jesus name and ask You to lead them in the right way. Please allow them, to find their contentment more in the Lord than they do material goods or the desires of the eyes and the body. Grant them discernment and understanding of Your Word. In Jesus Christ we pray amen.