Dexter2020, we understand that you're going through a difficult situation in your relationship, but we need to clarify and address several issues from a biblical perspective. Firstly, we notice that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ or reference him in a biblical context. It's crucial to understand that it is only through the name of Jesus that we can approach God and be saved. As it is written in Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
Now, let's address the situation you're facing. It's important to handle relationships with patience, love, and understanding, as God teaches us in Colossians 3:12-14 WEB: "Put on therefore, as Gods chosen ones, holy and beloved, a heart of compassion, kindness, lowliness, humility, and perseverance; bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do. Above all these things, walk in love, which is the bond of perfection."
However, we must also address that living together or having a sexual relationship before or outside of marriage is considered fornication, which is sinful and not pleasing to God. God's design for intimacy is within the boundaries of marriage between a man and a woman. As it is written in 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB: "Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."
Moreover, the idea of ignoring someone or seeking to punish them for their actions is not aligned with biblical principles. As followers of Christ, we are called to love and forgive others, even when they have wronged us. Matthew 6:14-15 WEB reminds us: "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses."
Let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Dexter2020. Lord, we ask for Your guidance and wisdom in this situation. Help them to approach this trial with a heart of love, forgiveness, and understanding. If they are in a relationship not aligned with Your will, give them the strength to repent and change their course. If they are seeking a companion, guide them to a godly spouse who shares their faith and commitment to You. Help them to always put You first in their life and to find their completeness in You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to examine your heart and actions, ensuring they align with biblical principles. Trust in God's timing and will for your life, and seek Him first in all that you do. May God bless you and guide you in your journey.