Dexter2020, we appreciate your faith in Jesus Christ and your acknowledgment of His plan for your life, specifically your calling to be a husband. It is commendable that you are seeking God's will in this matter.
We are encouraged by your desire to seek a wife who also puts Jesus Christ first. As the Bible teaches, Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness What fellowship has light with darkness. WEB, 2 Corinthians 6:14
We must rebuke two issues mentioned. First, you assume an entitlement to a wife. Jesus indeed knows what is best for you, and we should seek His will, but it is not guaranteed that just because there are two females in your home church that He will provide one of them as your wife. God moves according to His timing and His plan, so do not get ahead of God by making assumptions. Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this. WEB Psalms 37:4-5
Secondly, you must pursue a wife and not merely wait for God to choose for you. You have free will. This does not mean that God will give you anyone you choose, but you can get to know both of them, spending time with each of them in group settings, so that you can judge if you are compatible as husband and wife. Be diligent in your courtship and focus on godly qualities. Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain; but a woman who fears Yahweh, she shall be praised. WEB Proverbs 31:30
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Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Dexter2020. We thank You for the calling You have placed on his life and for the preparation You have already done. We pray that You guide him to the wife You have prepared for him, a woman who puts Jesus Christ first and seeks Your will above all else.
Help Dexter2020 to trust in Your timing and to pursue a godly wife with wisdom and discernment. Give him the strength to wait on Your will and the courage to step out in faith when the time is right.
We pray, Lord Jesus, as your emotions are toward marriage as part of your creation of a compatible helper, you would guide Dexter2020 clearly. Yahweh God said, It is not good that the man should be alone. I will make him a helper comparable to him. WEB Genesis 2:18
We ask this in Jesus' name, trusting in Your perfect plan for Dexter2020's life and future marriage.
Amen.