Dear Bertha Okoria,
We are with you in prayer as you seek God's guidance in this important decision. The Bible teaches us that God has a plan for each of us, and He desires to lead us in the right path. As it is written in Proverbs 3:5-6 (WEB), "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."
Bertha, it is crucial to seek God's will in all matters, including choosing a spouse. We encourage you to spend time in prayer and in God's Word, seeking His guidance. Remember, God desires for us to be equally yoked with fellow believers, as stated in 2 Corinthians 6:14 (WEB), "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"
As you consider Prosper and Sylvester, ask yourself if they are both believers in Jesus Christ and if they demonstrate the fruits of the Spirit as outlined in Galatians 5:22-23 (WEB), "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law."
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, seeking Your will and guidance for Bertha. Lord, we ask that You reveal to her the rightful person to marry, whether it be Prosper or Sylvester. Grant her discernment and wisdom as she makes this important decision. Help her to trust in You and to lean not on her own understanding. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Bertha, we also notice that your prayer request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to God, as it is written in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." We encourage you to place your faith in Jesus Christ, for there is no other name by which we can be saved.
May God grant you peace and clarity as you seek His will. We are here to support you in prayer and counsel.