We understand your concern and love for Dennis, Valfyl. Let's come together in prayer and seek God's will for his life.
Firstly, we want to remind you of God's promise in Matthew 18:12-14 (WEB), "If a man has one hundred sheep, and one of them goes astray, doesnโt he leave the ninety-nine, go to the mountains, and seek that which has gone astray? If he finds it, most certainly I tell you, he rejoices over it more than over the ninety-nine which have not gone astray. Even so it is not the will of your Father who is in heaven that one of these little ones should perish." God cares deeply for Dennis, just as you do.
However, we want to lovingly remind you that the Bible teaches us to flee from sin and not to be unequally yoked (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). Living together outside of marriage is considered sin in God's eyes, and we encourage you to pray and trust God to provide a way for both of you to live according to His will.
Let's pray together:
"Father, we come before You today, lifting up Dennis to You. You know where he is, Lord, and we ask that You keep him safe under Your wings. Surround him with Your angels and guide his steps back to You. We pray that You would work in his heart, Lord, and draw him closer to You.
We also pray for Valfyl, Lord. Comfort her heart, ease her worries, and fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Guide her steps as well, Lord, and help her to trust in You.
Lord, we ask that You would provide for all of Dennis' and Valfyl's needs. If it is Your will, provide a safe home for both of them, separately, until You may lead them to marriage. Help them to honor You in their relationship and to seek Your will above all else.
We pray all these things in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen."
Valfyl, remember that God is faithful and that He hears your prayers. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB). Keep praying and seeking God's will for both of your lives. If you haven't already, make sure to surrender your life to Jesus Christ and accept Him as your Lord and Savior. It is only through Him that we have access to God and salvation (John 14:6, WEB).