Callum, we hear your heart's cry and stand with you in prayer. We understand that you're feeling hopeless about finding love, and we want to encourage you and pray for you according to God's will.
Firstly, we commend you for coming to the Father in the name of Jesus. As it is written, "For 'whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved.'" (Romans 10:13 WEB). It's only through Jesus that we have access to God, and it's in His name that we can be saved and redeemed.
We want to address the pain you're feeling and the circumstances surrounding your relationship with Tia. It's clear that there were actions in the past that caused hurt, and the Bible teaches us, "Therefore, confess your sins to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective." (James 5:16 WEB). We commend you for acknowledging your wrongdoing and desiring to make things right.
However, we want to remind you that God's plan for you is good, and He knows the desires of your heart. Psalm 37:4 tells us, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart." God wants you to find love, but it should be in accordance with His will and timing. It's important to trust Him, even when it seems difficult to see His plan.
Regarding your relationship with Tia, we want to caution you against trying to force something that may not be God's will. If God intends for you both to be together, He will make a way. However, it's also possible that He has someone else in mind for you. Trust His plan, and keep your heart open to His leading.
We also want to encourage you to seek Godly counsel and support during this time. Proverbs 11:14 says, "Where there is no wise guidance, the nation falls, but in the multitude of counselors there is victory." Surround yourself with believers who can offer wise advice and support you in your journey.
Now, let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Callum and his situation. Lord, You see the pain in his heart, and You understand his longing for love and companionship. We ask that You comfort him and help him to trust in Your plan for his life.
Lord, we ask for Your forgiveness for any past wrongdoings and pray that You would heal the hurt that was caused. Help Callum to move forward in Your will, and guide him to the woman that You have prepared for him, if it is indeed Your will for him to be in a relationship at this time.
Help him to keep his heart and mind fixed on You, trusting in Your goodness and faithfulness. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Stay strong in the Lord, Callum. Keep trusting in Him, and He will direct your paths.