We are truly sorry to hear about your struggles over the past seven years, and we want you to know that you are not alone in this. We will pray with you and offer some biblical guidance to help you navigate this difficult situation. Firstly, let's address the issue of marriage. The Bible teaches us that believers should not be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14). This means that as Christians, we should seek to marry those who share our faith and beliefs. The Bible also teaches about the roles of parents in their children's lives they should not be disregarded but honored (Mark 7:9-13).
Regarding your situation, it's important to consider a few things. The Bible tells us to honor our parents (Ephesians 6:2), but it also says that "a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh" (Genesis 2:24, WEB). This means that while we should respect our parents' wishes, ultimately, the decision about whom to marry is ours to make, keeping in mind the biblical principles of being equally yoked. Marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, and it should be entered into with the utmost care and consideration. It is also an ordinance of God and not a man made institution.
However, it's crucial to ensure that this relationship is aligned with biblical principles. If you and your girlfriend are both believers in Christ and are committed to living according to God's word, then you can move forward in seeking God's will for your relationship. If not, then it may be necessary to reevaluate your relationship and make sure that both of you are following Christ first and foremost.
We also want to encourage you to cast all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you (1 Peter 5:7, WEB). God knows your struggles, and He wants to help you through them. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB).
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today to lift up our brother in Christ who is struggling with his life's direction and his relationship. Lord, we ask that You guide him and give him the wisdom to make decisions that honor You. Help him to trust in Your timing and Your will for his life. We also ask that You soften his mother's heart and the hearts of his girlfriend's parents, that they may see Your will and approve of a future marriage if it aligns with Your purpose and if they are both believers.
Lord, we also pray for his mother and sister, that You may comfort them and provide for their needs. Help them to support one another and to trust in You.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to continue seeking God's will for your life. Trust that He has a plan and a purpose for you, and that He will reveal it to you in His perfect timing if you are believing and trusting in the name of Jesus Christ. Fast and pray for the salvation of your girlfriend and her parents. It is only by the name of Jesus that we are saved and have access to God ( John 14:6, Acts 4:12 WEB). If you have any other questions or need further guidance, please feel free to ask. We are here to help and support you in any way we can.