We understand that you're going through a significant change in your life, Shaalkaari, and we want to address your situation with care and biblical guidance. Firstly, we want to acknowledge your recognition of God's will and your declaration of the enemy's defeat through the blood of Jesus. It's crucial to remember that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms Ephesians 6:12 WEB.
However, we want to gently rebuke the sentiment of "it is what it is" regarding your relationship. This phrase can often imply resignation or fatalism, which is not a biblical mindset. Instead, we should approach every situation with faith and hope, knowing that God is working all things together for good for those who love him, for those who are called according to his purpose Romans 8:28 WEB.
We also noticed that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ directly in your request. It's essential to remember that it is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God. As it is written, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" 1 Timothy 2:5 WEB. There is no other name by which we can be saved Acts 4:12 WEB.
Regarding your past relationships, we want to encourage you to seek God's will for your future. God's desire is for you to have a godly spouse and a marriage that honors Him. If you are entering a courtship, ensure it is with a Christian believer and that it is directed towards the goal of a godly marriage. Remember, "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? And what communion has light with darkness" 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB.
Let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Shaalkaari. We thank you for the spiritual victories in her life and the recognition of your will. We pray that you will heal any past hurts and direct her steps towards a future that honors you. Guide her in your truth and surround her with godly counsel. Help her to stay encouraged and hopeful for her future and believe that with you all things are possible. Lord, we ask you to bless her kids and everyone involved. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged, Shaalkaari, and keep trusting in the Lord. He has good plans for you, plans to give you hope and a future Jeremiah 29:11 WEB.