We are truly sorry to hear about the pain and hurt you are experiencing after this breakup. It's important to remember that God's ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts higher than our thoughts. Even when we don't understand His plans, we can trust that He works all things together for good for those who love Him and are called according to His purpose.
Firstly, we need to address the feeling of betrayal by God. It's important to remember that God is faithful, and He will not let us be tempted beyond what we can bear, but with the temptation will also make the way of escape, that we may be able to endure it. In times of distress, let us hold fast to Him and trust in His goodness. As it is written in Romans 8:28, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose."
Regarding the breakup, it's crucial to align our relationships with biblical principles. In this case, if the relationship was a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, we should consider that such relationships should be a courtship with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer. If this was not the intended goal, it may not have been aligned with God's will. Additionally, if the relationship involved activities that were not pleasing to God, such as sexual immorality, it's important to repent and turn away from such activities. As it is written in 1 Corinthians 6:18, "Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."
Let us pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today, lifting up our brother/sister who is going through a difficult time. Lord, we ask for Your comfort and peace to surround them during this trial. Help them to trust in Your goodness and faithfulness, even when they don't understand Your plans. Lord, if there are any areas in their life that are not aligned with Your will, we ask for conviction and repentance. Guide them in Your truth and help them to walk in Your ways. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, we want to encourage you to seek God's will for your life. Trust that He has a plan and a purpose for you. As it is written in Jeremiah 29:11, "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future."
Remember that it is only in the name of Jesus that we have access to God. If you are questioning if Jesus is Lord, then please consider the following verse. Romans 10:9 because, if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.