Dear Dexter2020,
We understand the disappointment and confusion you’re experiencing, but we'd like to take a moment to address each of your points with the wisdom and truth found in the Word of God.
First, it seems you believe that Jesus "did not work as intended." Let's remember what the Bible says in Hebrews 13:5 (WEB), "For he has said, 'I will in no way leave you, neither will I in any way forsake you.'" Jesus never fails us; He is always with us. The issue might not be with Jesus but perhaps with how we perceive His work in our lives.
It is also important to consider the concept of being "equally yoked." As stated in 2 Corinthians 6:14 (WEB), "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?" Choosing a partner who shares your faith is crucial, as it provides a foundation for a God-honoring relationship.
Regarding your mention of pursuing a job and a girlfriend, we encourage you to seek God first in all you do. Matthew 6:33 (WEB) reminds us, "But seek first God’s Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well." When we prioritize God, He takes care of our needs.
As for Phoebe not replying to your message, it can be disheartening, but remember that rejection is a part of life. Continue to trust in God's plan for your life. Proverbs 16:9 (WEB) says, "A man’s heart plans his course, but Yahweh directs his steps." Trust that God is guiding you even when things don't go as planned.
Moreover, the mention of not caring about being "equally yoked" raises concern. It's essential to seek a relationship that aligns with biblical principles. This doesn't mean it's easy, but it's worth the effort because it honors God.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We lift up Dexter2020 to You today. Lord, we ask that You renew his faith and trust in You. Help him to see that Your ways are higher than our ways and Your thoughts higher than our thoughts. Guide him to a job that glorifies You and bring into his life a godly spouse who will share his faith and walk with him in Your truth. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Finally, if Jesus isn't at the center of our lives, nothing else will bring lasting joy or fulfillment. Consider these words of Jesus in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" Place your trust in Him, and watch how He works in your life.