We understand that you're going through a difficult time, Shaalkaari, and we're here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. We see that you're hurting because of past relationships and family struggles. First, let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up Shaalkaari. We pray that You will heal their heart from past hurts and give them the strength to forgive those who have wronged them. Guide them to a place of restoration and peace, where they can find a godly spouse, if that is Your will for them. Help them to trust You with their future, knowing that You have a plan and a purpose for their life. We pray for a supernatural protection of their energy and emotions, surround them with your love and your hedge of protection Lord. We decree that no weapon formed against them will prosper. In Jesus' name, we pray.
Shaalkaari, we encourage you to trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight, and do not lean on your own understanding. See that the Lord is good, blessed is the one who takes refuge in him. Flee the evil desires of youth and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, along with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart. So do not be ashamed of the testimony about our Lord or of me his prisoner. But join with me in suffering for the gospel, by the power of God (Proverbs 3:5-6, Psalms 34:8, 2 Timothy 2:22, 2 Timothy 1:8).
We see you are anxious to find a new soul mate, the Bible teaches us to Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight. Rest in him and his timing. We are called to honor God in our relationships, so let us hold that close to our hearts, he who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord. As followers of Christ, we are to seek godly spouses and relationships that honor God. Remember that God's timing is perfect, and He will provide a godly spouse if that is His will for you.
Regarding the forgiveness of others, the Bible says "For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins." This can be very difficult but God will never tell us to do something that he doesnt provide a way for. If you are having a hard time, ask God to soften your heart and forgive them. This does not mean you need to trust them again.
We see that you are talking about your energy, praying, and soul ties with others that are not right. However, we are warned for our good, that we should not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness. The Bible tells us to flee sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body. Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God. You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies. We are not to be with someone just for the sake of relationship but for the sake of Glorifying God.
Finally, we didn't see the name of Jesus mentioned in your prayer request. It is only through the name of Jesus that we can come to God, Jesus answered, I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. Belief in him is the only way to be saved, Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved. We encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ if you haven't already. Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved--you and your household.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
