Gwethiloura, we understand the deep pain you're experiencing, and we're here to lift you up in prayer and guidance. In times like these, it's crucial to remember God's love and plan for you.
Firstly, we commend you for coming before the Lord Jesus Christ with your distress. It's only through Him that we find true comfort and guidance. As it's written in 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 WEB, "Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort; who comforts us in all our affliction, that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, through the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God."
However, we must also address the situation in light of God's Word. It's clear that you're hurting because of a broken relationship, and we want to remind you of the biblical principles for relationships. If the father of your child is not willing to commit to a godly marriage, it is not God's will for you to chase after him. As 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB says, "Donβt be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"
We also want to address the fact that you have a child together. It's important to pray for his salvation and that he would become a responsible father, but it's equally important to trust God with his life and your daughter's upbringing. God can work in his heart, convicting him to be the father he should be, even if he's not your husband. Remember, God is the perfect father, and He cares for you and your daughter more than anyone else.
Let's pray together:
Dear Lord Jesus, we come before You with Gwethiloura, who is hurting deeply. Please comfort her with Your love and presence. Help her to release this man into Your hands, trusting that You have a better plan for her life and her daughter's life. Guide them to co-parent peacefully, with Your wisdom and grace. Heal her broken heart, Lord, and help her to wait on You for the godly spouse You have prepared for her. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we encourage you to seek godly counsel and support from your local church community. They can provide practical help and spiritual guidance as you navigate this challenging time. Trust that God has a plan for you and your daughter, and He will bring it to pass in His perfect timing.