Issue in Marriage (Friendships with Other People)

Anonymous · Jan 5, 2025

Please pray that my husband and I's values will align more when it comes to friendships in marriage. Specifically, I don't have close friendships with other men, but my spouse is very comfortable being friends with other women. I know for a fact that he means well (he's probably one of the most outgoing people I've ever met, and is just a very talkative/friendly person) and I trust him, but it is still something that causes me a lot of anxiety and stress. I still feel these things despite having boundaries in place (he doesn't hang out with them alone or anything). However, it's still hard for me to accept/process the fact that he wants to spend time with other women (giving time/attention toward them) even just in the form of a friendship. I've tried talking to him about it countless times, and he has made many changes over the years, but it's not completely where I want things to be yet. I yearn for the same love that I give to him, and for him to care more about my feelings/comfort over friendships with other women. I know that this is a lot, and it's kind of a controversial topic (so many people have different perspectives on this). However, it really is something that has caused me immense stress and anxiety, and I'm really hoping that I can eventually feel more at peace somehow.

Articles · Jan 5, 2025

Let us first pray together for your marriage.

We will pray that the Lord Jesus Christ will work in the life of your husband and your own life to better align your values with His Word. We pray that the Holy Spirit will guide your hearts and minds to the Truth. We ask that you will both seek the wisdom and guidance of the Holy Spirit to better understand each other.

We pray that God will work in your marriage to ease your anxiety and stress. We pray that your husband will be more sensitive to your concerns and will work to better understand your feelings. We ask that the Lord will give you both the strength and wisdom to work through this issue in a way that honors Him.

We ask that you will pray for your husband regarding this matter. We pray that you will ask God to unite your hearts and align your values, bringing you both closer to Him.

We pray that you will both seek the Lord's will for your marriage and that you will both be willing to make the changes necessary to honor Him. We pray that you will both be willing to make sacrifices for each other and that you will both be willing to put the other's needs above your own.

We pray that you will both be willing to seek the Lord's will for your marriage and that you will both be willing to make the changes necessary to honor Him. We pray that you will both be willing to make sacrifices for each other and that you will both be willing to put the other's needs above your own.

We pray that you will both seek the Lord's will for your marriage and that you will both be willing to make the changes necessary to honor Him. We pray that you will both be willing to make sacrifices for each other and that you will both be willing to put the other's needs above your own.

Father, in the name of Jesus Christ, we ask that you will help them to better understand each other and to better understand Your will for their marriage. We ask that you will help them to better understand each other and to better understand Your will for their marriage. We ask that you will help them to better understand each other and to better understand Your will for their marriage. We ask that you will help them to better understand each other and to better understand Your will for their marriage.

In the name of Jesus Christ we pray, amen.

We would like to share some scripture and thoughts with you.

First, we want to address the issue of friendships with the opposite sex. While the Bible does not explicitly forbid such friendships, it does warn us to flee from sexual immorality and to avoid even the appearance of evil.

1 Thessalonians 5:22 WEB
Abstain from every form of evil.

1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB
Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body.

While we understand that your husband may have good intentions, it is important to consider the potential dangers of such friendships. Even if he is not tempted, others may be, and it is important to protect your marriage from even the appearance of evil.

We also want to address the issue of your anxiety and stress. While it is normal to have concerns, it is important to remember that God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control.

2 Timothy 1:7 WEB
For God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control.

We encourage you to seek the Lord's will for your marriage and to trust in Him. We pray that He will give you the strength and wisdom to work through this issue in a way that honors Him.

We also want to address the issue of your husband's love for you. We encourage you to remember that love is not just a feeling, but a choice. We pray that your husband will choose to love you in a way that honors God and that he will be more sensitive to your concerns.

hostadmin · Jan 5, 2025

We're here for you, and we want you to know that we're praying for you and your husband. We've been thinking about your situation and feel led to share some thoughts with you.

Firstly, we want to encourage you to keep communicating openly and honestly with your husband. It's clear that you both love each other, and open communication is key to understanding each other's perspectives and feelings. Remember, it's okay to express your concerns, but do so in a way that's respectful and not accusatory.

We also want to remind you that God is with you both in this. He loves you and your husband deeply, and He wants the best for your marriage. In times like these, it's important to lean into Him, to seek His wisdom and guidance. We encourage you to spend time in prayer together, asking God to help you both understand each other's hearts and to guide you in making decisions that honor Him.

We also want to share a verse with you that we hope will encourage you:

"Cast your cares on the Lord and he will sustain you; he will never let the righteous be shaken." - Psalm 55:22 (NIV)

Remember, God is big enough to handle all your concerns and anxieties. He is there to support you, and He will never let you down.

Lastly, we want to remind you that change takes time, and it's okay to take things one step at a time. We pray that you and your husband will continue to grow together in love and understanding, and that God will use this situation to draw you both closer to Him.

We're here for you, and we'll continue to pray for you both. If there's anything else you need, please don't hesitate to reach out. We're in this together.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

flora · Jan 5, 2025

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

usha rani · Jan 6, 2025

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

Cinu · Jan 6, 2025

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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The Encourager · Jan 6, 2025

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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hostadmin · Jan 11, 2025

We continue to lift you and your husband up in prayer, dear sister, specifically regarding the aligning of your values concerning friendships in your marriage. We have been fervently asking God to guide both of your hearts, that you may find unity and peace in this area of your life together.

If you have seen improvements and answers to these prayers, we would be glad to rejoice with you. Please share with us the good news so we can all praise God together for His faithfulness. If you feel that your request is not yet fully answered, or if you have any updates or new specific needs, please share them with us as a new request. We are committed to standing by your side in prayer for as long as it takes.

We have been praying that God would help your husband understand and be more sensitive to your feelings, and that He would give you both wisdom and discernment in navigating these relationships. We have also been asking God to fill your heart with His supernatural peace, that you may find rest and security in Him regardless of the circumstances.

Remember, it is always God's desire that husbands and wives love and respect each other, and that they be united in their thoughts and purposes. We stand on God's Word that says, "Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up" (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10).

We are blessed to have you in our community, and we are here to support and encourage you in your journey of faith and marriage. May God continue to bless you richly as you seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ.