Isolated and alone, very ill christian seeking friends and healing.

Lankter

Disciple of Prayer
Please help. I live by myself since i was kicked out of a home of 18y marriage and 3 kids 2 years ago. I still cant talk to them. I was ill before but now its been so bad it's stopping me functioning, my current 'bout' has seen me not eat for 11 days. The only person I'm in contact with is a neighbour i only met a couple of months ago, who is lovely but very busy. Occasionally i will talk to my kind of distant father who has Parkinsons, but no christian friends in my life. I am in need of friends and freedom from illness and infirmity.
 
We are truly heartbroken to hear about your situation, Lankter. Firstly, we want to remind you that you are never alone, for God is always with you. As it is written in Deuteronomy 31:6 WEB, Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for Yahweh your God goes with you. He will not fail you nor forsake you.

It is concerning to us though that you did not mention Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ or an abbreviation such as IJN (In Jesus Name) in your prayer request. Jesus alone is the mediator between God and man.

1 Timothy 2:5 WEB For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus, Jesus Christ alone was born of a virgin, died on a cross, was buried, and rose from the dead. It is only faith in Jesus Christ that can save you. John 14:6 WEB Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. It is only through Jesus that we can come to God, the father. Acts 4:12 WEB There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved

Second only to your salvation is the very harsh reality of your of your removal from your family situation. Lets pray not only for physical healing in your body Lankter, but also for full restoration for you, your ex-spouse, your children and your relationships with them. We will be praying too before God for you for repentance on behalf of all of you that are involved. God is a forgiving God, but also in the end a just God too. Lets even go as far as praying for those that apparently wronged you that they repent from this and any ungodly way too.

Come to him for your healing of not only your physical body and your heart and spirit but for the healing of your family. He alone can do this through his son Jesus Christ and wants the best for all involved Psalms 55:22 WEB Cast your burden on Yahweh, and he will sustain you. He will never allow the righteous to be moved. Also Matthew 11:28 WEB Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest.

We also pray that God brings Christian friends into your life, who can encourage you and build you up in your faith.

Regarding you getting kicked out of your home. We do not know why but we understand in some cases where sometimes it is warranted and sometimes where this is very wrong. We must though look at ourselves too to ensure we are blameless. Proverbs 3:30 WEB Do not strive with a man without cause, if he has done you no harm. We also must look at what God tells us about marriage, divorce, and remarriage in 1 Corinthians chapter 7. We also want you to know Lankter that even though you had to move out of your home does not mean you should stop attempting to communicate with your children. Nonetheless, We also must abide by good standing laws of the land at your location as long as they do not contradict God.

We pray God can make a way for you to have a relationship with your children in Jesus Christ too. Even though the remarriage of your spouse may seem final, we understand God wants the restoration of the family. In this instance, to pray for you and their mother to remarry if this is God's will to be reconciled. God expects this type of forgiveness of each other too.

Let us pray for you:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before you today in Jesus Christ name to lift up Lankter. We ask for your healing hand to be upon them, that you would restore their health and strength. We rebuke the spirit of illness and infirmity in their life and speak healing and wholeness in Jesus name.
Lord you alone can heal but we must give you thanks that we know you will hear us in this prayer for healing. We can claim that we can come before you with confidence and make our requests. It also says you will hear us.

1 John 5:14 WEB This is the confidence which we have toward him, that, if we ask anything according to his will, he listens to us.

1 John 5:15 WEB And if we know that he listens to us, whatever we ask, we know that we have the petitions which we have asked of him.
Lord we pray for total restoration and reconciliation of the whole family. Lankter, their children, and ex spouse.

1 Corinthians 7:11 WEB But if she does depart, let her remain unmarried, or else be reconciled to her husband. And let not the husband put away his wife.

Lord, we also ask that you would bring godly friends into Lankter's life, who can encourage them and build them up in their faith. We ask that you would give them the courage to reach out to their children according to your will. We ask that you would soften the hearts of their children and their ex and draw them all to you.

We pray that they can forgive each other as well since we know the word of God says this is the will of God.

Ephesians 4:32 WEB Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you.

Lord, we ask that you would guide Lankter and their family to be reconciled as you see fit and work things together for their good according to your will.

Romans 8:28 WEB We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose.

We ask all these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ.

Amen.

Lankter, stay strong in your faith and trust in the Lord. He is with you and he will never forsake you. Keep your eyes on Jesus and know that he has a plan and a purpose for you and your family. Continue to pray and seek his face, and he will direct your paths.
 
We're here for you, Lankter. We've been thinking about your situation and wanted to reach out with some encouragement and prayer. It's tough feeling alone, but remember, God is always with you. He sees you, He cares, and He's working things out for your good.

We've been praying for your physical healing, and we believe God is restoring your strength. But we also want to pray for your heart and spirit. We know it's been hard, feeling isolated and cut off from your family. We're asking God to bring healing and restoration to your relationships, to soften hearts, and to draw you all together.

We're also praying for God to bring Christian friends into your life. Friends who can encourage you, support you, and build you up in your faith. And we're believing that God will give you the courage to reach out to your kids, according to His will.

We know it's a tough situation, but we trust that God is in control. He's working all things together for your good, Lankter. Keep your eyes on Jesus, trust in Him, and keep seeking His face. He's got a plan and a purpose for you and your family.

Let's keep praying together, and let's keep believing for breakthrough. You're not alone, Lankter. We're in this with you.
 
Thank you for such a quick response.
I have been trying to cling on to God for dear life, but having had to move away from where i was living means i don't know the area or people, and it's just a 'keep to yourself' kind of housing estate. Not many go out of their way to be friendly.
I think a lot of the mental health problems ive had have been made worse by a lack of friends. The loneliness is a killer.
But I'm desperate to be healthy, and already know Gods physical healing (from crushed disc in back to normal one).
 
Didn't mention. I've been a christian since 12 but believed before. Trying to seek out the truth in all things, and be whatever he needs me to be.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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