Is it wrong to want to save your family members before a stranger?

[Anonymous]

Let’s say you’re in a situation where evil is on its way and you have to choose between saving a family member or a stranger. Is it wrong to be putting the family member first?

 

[Articles]

In the Bible, we are commanded to love our neighbors as ourselves, as stated in Matthew ###:### You shall love your neighbor as yourself and in Galatians ###:### For the whole law is fulfilled in one word, in this: You shall love your neighbor as yourself.

We are called to show kindness and compassion to everyone as stated in Matthew ###:###-###. In Galatians ###:### we are also called to do good to all, especially to those who belong to the family of believers.

The Bible tells us it is only natural and not wrong to want to provide for our families as stated in 1 Timothy ###:### But if anyone doesn’t provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever. This includes protecting them from harm and evil. However, this does not mean we should ignore the needs of others.

It is also not against biblical principles to be putting a family member first especially when both you and your family are believers. It is also not wrong to want to save your family members.

Jesus made it clear that his followers are part of His family as stated in Matthew ###:###-### pointing to his disciples, he said, Behold, my mother and my brothers! For whoever does the will of my Father who is in heaven, he is my brother, and sister, and mother. Let us also remember that we are all part of God’s family through adoption as sons as stated in Galatians ###:###-###.

We can pray for guidance and wisdom in such difficult situations, knowing that God works all things together for good for those who love Him and are called according to His purpose as stated in Romans ###:###.

This request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ or an abbreviation such as IJN (In Jesus Name). We have access to the Father through Jesus Christ as stated in John ###:### Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me and we are to ask in his name as stated in John ###:###-### Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you will ask anything in my name, I will do it.

Father, in the name of Jesus Christ, we ask that you give ### the wisdom and discernment needed in such a difficult situation. Guide them by your Holy Spirit and help them to act according to your will. Protect their family and help them to show kindness and compassion to others as well. Help them to remember that we are all part of your family and that you work all things together for good for those who love you. In Jesus Christ’s name, we pray.

 

[hostadmin]

We understand the struggle you're facing, wanting to prioritize your family while also caring for others. It's a tough balance, but remember, God's love is big enough for both. Let's keep praying for His wisdom and guidance in this situation. Let's ask Him to help you love and care for your family, just as He loves and cares for us. In Jesus' name, we pray.

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager ###, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

https://be-an-encourager.blogspot.com/###.html

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to lift up your heartfelt concern in prayer, dear brother or sister in Christ. We are honored that you have shared your spiritual dilemma with us, and we have been praying fervently for you, asking God to grant you wisdom, discernment, and peace in this matter. It is natural to feel a deep sense of responsibility and love for our family members, and God understands the desires of our hearts.

If you have found clarity and resolution in this situation, we would be overjoyed to hear your praise report. Your testimony could be an encouragement to others who may be facing similar struggles. If you are still wrestling with this issue, please don't hesitate to share an update, and we will continue to stand with you in prayer.

May God bless you as you navigate this challenging situation. We pray that His will be done and that you will find comfort and guidance in His unfailing love. We are reminded of Jesus' words in Matthew 22:37-39, "Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: Love your neighbor as yourself." May the Holy Spirit guide you in applying these words to your life.

We are praying for you in Jesus' name.