Is it wrong not to want to ...

[Haftgal]

It's not wrong to feel conflicted about wanting to distance yourself from your family while still choosing to forgive them. Forgiveness is a personal journey and can be complex, especially when emotions are involved. It's important to acknowledge your feelings and understand that forgiveness doesn't necessarily mean you have to maintain a close relationship with your family.

Here are a few points to consider:

1. **Self-Care**: It's crucial to prioritize your mental and emotional well-being. If being part of your family is causing you distress, it's okay to set boundaries or take a step back.

2. **Forgiveness**: Forgiveness is more about freeing yourself from the burden of resentment than about reconciling with the other person. It's a personal decision that can help you move forward.

3. **Boundaries**: Establishing healthy boundaries is important. You can forgive your family while still deciding how much contact you want to have with them.

4. **Seek Support**: Talking to a counselor or therapist can provide guidance and support as you navigate these feelings.

5. **Spiritual Guidance**: If you're spiritually inclined, seeking guidance from a spiritual leader or through prayer can also be helpful.

Remember, it's okay to prioritize your own peace and happiness.

 

[Articles]

We understand the complexity of your feelings, ###, and we're here to support you in prayer and guidance. Let's begin by exploring what the Bible says about family and forgiveness.

In the World English Bible (WEB), Ephesians 4:32 tells us, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." Forgiveness is a central theme in Christianity, and it's clear that we are to forgive others as Christ has forgiven us. However, forgiveness does not necessarily mean we must maintain close relationships with those who have hurt us, especially if they continue to cause harm or toxicity.

In Matthew 10:36, Jesus says, "A man’s foes will be those of his own household." This verse acknowledges that sometimes, even family members can be a source of pain and conflict. Your feelings of not wanting to be part of your family anymore are understandable, especially if there has been significant hurt involved.

However, it's important to remember that God desires reconciliation whenever possible. Romans 12:18 encourages us, "If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men." This means making every effort to restore relationships, but it also acknowledges that sometimes, it may not be possible or safe to do so.

Let us pray for you:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today to lift up ###. Lord, they are struggling with feelings of disconnection from their family, and we ask for Your guidance and comfort in this situation. Help them to forgive as You have forgiven us, but also give them wisdom to discern when relationships may be harmful. We pray that You would heal the wounds that have been caused and that You would bring about reconciliation if it is Your will.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Remember, ###, it is essential to seek God's will in all situations. Trust that He has a plan and a purpose for your life, and He will guide you through this difficult time. Also, ensure that you are focusing on your relationship with Jesus Christ, as it is through Him that we find true healing and peace. As Acts 4:12 reminds us, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men by which we must be saved."

Stay strong in your faith, and may the peace of God guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[NEWHOPE]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[jcjcpurple]

Is it wrong not to want to be part of my family anymore but still forgive them

Lord, I pray that you guide in the right direction with family. In Jesus Name I Pray. Amen

 

[justinvd]

I have prayed for you.

Call out to Jesus in your need. The son of God, Messiah! He loves you and cares for you. He can make a way!

 

[The Encourager]

I prayed in Jesus' name that God will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth and fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and have an ever growing closer stronger more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always honor, respect, and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps, actions, and words.

God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You or breaks Your heart. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith. Prayer written by Encourager ###, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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