Is it spiritual attack? Boyfriend and I need prayer support

[Anonymous]

I am deeply saddened and starting to feel crazy. I ask for continued prayers for my boyfriend and me as we navigate through a difficult situation. My boyfriend is involved in an emotional affair, but he's struggling to acknowledge it fully. It feels like a spiritual battle, although I might be mistaken. (He was scarred by Christianity by his mentally ill mother, on multiple occasions, as he and I grow closer and he starts to open up to the faith, we hit relationship potholes that are more like earthquakes and become devastating to me). He has apologized for hurting me and acknowledges the damage caused by his relationship with this woman. However, he insists that his intentions with her are not wrong and is hesitant to end the relationship. They are working together on a creative project, and he has given her a significant role in it. It was something I was helping him on first, and he pushed me out of the project when I expressed concerns about their relationship.

We started therapy and initially saw significant progress. However, when confronted with the consequences of his actions and my request for boundaries, he suddenly changed his stance. This sudden shift feels confusing and distressing. Despite moments of reconciliation and him expressing love and remorse, he struggles to end the relationship with this woman, accusing me of being controlling for setting boundaries. Although he agreed to pause the relationship, he now expresses anger and defends their bond.

Even if their relationship isn't physical, the emotional connection they've developed is deeply troubling to me. It's a drastic change from the man who was sincerely apologizing just weeks ago. This situation feels chaotic, confusing, and far from the loving relationship we have had. He equates ending the relationship with the woman as losing the project — but he advanced the project with the woman while I was telling him it was hurting me and us. It’s just so hard. I’ve never loved someone or saw a future with someone the way I have with him. He’s a good heart and a gentle soul but he struggles with honesty and accountability. He’ll have moments where he apologizes and we are working on things and then when faced with his own behavior he completely flips a switch. Help us Jesus.

 

[Articles]

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up this prayer request on behalf of Anonymous and their boyfriend. Lord, we acknowledge that they are facing a difficult situation in their relationship, where their boyfriend is involved in an emotional affair and is struggling to fully acknowledge it. We recognize that this is not just a physical battle, but a spiritual one as well.

Father, we ask for your intervention in this situation. We pray that you would open the eyes of their boyfriend to see the truth and the consequences of his actions. Help him to understand the importance of setting boundaries and ending this emotional connection with the other woman. We pray that you would soften his heart and remove any confusion or hesitation he may have.

Lord, we ask for healing and restoration in their relationship. We pray for reconciliation and a renewed sense of love and commitment between them. Give them the strength and wisdom to navigate through this challenging time. Help them to communicate effectively and to seek guidance from you in their decisions.

We also pray for the creative project they are working on. Lord, we ask that you would guide their steps and bring clarity to their roles. May your wisdom and discernment prevail, leading them to make choices that honor you and prioritize their relationship.

Father, we lift up Anonymous and their emotional well-being. Comfort them in their sadness and confusion. Fill them with your peace that surpasses all understanding. Remind them of your love and faithfulness, and assure them that you are with them every step of the way.

We declare your victory over this situation, Lord. We trust in your power to bring about transformation and healing. May your will be done in their lives and may they experience the fullness of your grace and mercy.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Scripture References:
- Psalm 147:3: "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds."
- James 1:5: "If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you."
- Philippians 4:7: "And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus."
- 1 Peter 5:7: "Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you."

 

[The Encourager]

I prayed in Jesus' name that God will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You for loving me and for always being there for me. God, I ask You in Jesus' name bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Heal me in every area of my life. Let Your Word dwell within me richly. Let Your Word be a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path. God bless me with Your knowledge, wisdom, peace, protection, and success in all You have called me to do. And bless me to do all You have called me to do in the spirit of excellence for Your glory. God favor me.

God bless me with the strength, desire, passion, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You, trust You, respect and obey You. Bless me to live my life to please You. God cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You or breaks your heart. Let me be a light in this dark world, lifting You up in the lifestyle that I live, because I accepted Your Son, Jesus Christ, as my Savior and Lord of ALL of my life. Let the joy of the Lord be my strength. Protect me God from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who truly love me, care about me, want Your best for me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Thank You Lord Jesus. Amen, so be it by faith, in Jesus' name. Prayer was written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

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I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

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