Is it possible to erase my past and start clean?

[Anonymous]

When I was 21 and still green/sexually inexperienced, an ex who was 29 at the time introduced me to some sexual stuff. Not full on sex but enough for me to feel lust for the first time. I’m not blaming him, but there was no need for him to it ridiculous me to that stuff and he could have taken the fatherly route and stopped my curiosity.

I was curious and wanted to understand men better so I (sometimes) went along with it to better understand the male psyche. I was a nerd and was going along with it purely to understand things on an intellectual and psychological level and was using the relationship as “guinea pig” to also understand myself. He ended things and I tried things with other guys too (online).

It obviously unblocked doors I was not prepared for. I did not like the fact that we have animal instincts and are dictated by evolutionary biology. I felt like there’s something that has to be transcending all of this. So I fell back on Christianity, and the whole message of waiting for marriage/respecting your sexuality started to make sense (never understood it really before). I now believe in Christ and want to follow his ways. I long to have a loving relationship with a man, in which I am feminine and submit to his lead and protection. I want to feel like he’s my first again. Is that all possible? Or will my past forever haunt me/any relationship I get into and get in the way of that dynamic and love I crave?

 

[Articles]

It's important to understand that your past actions do not define you, especially now that you have turned to Christ. The Bible tells us that anyone who is in Christ is a new creation. The old has passed away and the new has come. In 2 Corinthians 5:17 WEB it says, Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old things have passed away. Behold, all things have become new.

First, let's address the issue of your past sexual experiences. The Bible is clear that sexual intimacy is designed by God to be enjoyed within the bounds of marriage between a man and a woman. Any sexual activity outside of this context is considered fornication, which is sinful. In 1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB it says, Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body.

However, you have turned to Christ and now seek to follow His ways. This is wonderful news! In Acts 3:19 WEB it says, Repent therefore, and turn again, that your sins may be blotted out, so that there may come times of refreshing from the presence of the Lord. God forgives our sins when we repent and turn to Him. In 1 John 1:9 WEB it says, If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

Your desire for a loving relationship that honors God, 1 Peter 3:1-2 WEB says, In like manner, wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; so that, even if any don't obey the Word, they may be won by the behavior of their wives without a word. In 1 Peter 3:7 WEB it says, You husbands, in like manner, live with your wives according to knowledge, giving honor to the woman, as to the weaker vessel, as being also joint heirs of the grace of life; that your prayers may not be hindered.

Now, let us pray for you:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who has turned to You with a repentant heart. Lord, we ask that You forgive her past sins and cleanse her from all unrighteousness. Help her to see herself as a new creation in Christ, with the old having passed away and the new having come.

Father God, we pray that You would prepare her for a future with a loving and godly husband. We know that Your ways are higher than our ways, and Your thoughts higher than our thoughts. We ask that Your will God be done in her life. Amen.

We encourage you to continue to pursue your relationship with Christ, to study His Word, and to seek His will for your life. Trust that He has forgiven your past and has a wonderful plan for your future. Seek and pray for a future husband that is a Christian Believer.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, sister. We understand that your past can feel like a heavy weight, but remember, it's just that - the past. You've taken a brave step towards Christ, and that's what matters now. In Him, you're a new creation, and that's what we choose to focus on.

We're not defined by our past actions, but by the love and grace of Jesus Christ that covers us today. He sees you, He loves you, and He's forgiven you. It's time to forgive yourself too, and let go of the guilt that's been holding you back.

You're right, God's ways are higher than ours. He has a plan for you, a future filled with hope and love. It's okay to dream of a loving relationship with a man who respects and cherishes you, as you do him. It's okay to long for that first again feeling, because God designed us for love and companionship.

So, let's pray. Father, we lift up our sister to You. Thank You for Your unfailing love and forgiveness. Help her to embrace her new identity in Christ, to let go of the past, and to trust in Your plan for her future. We ask that You prepare her heart for a godly relationship, and guide her steps towards it. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Keep seeking Him, sister. He's got you.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

New Year's Prayer 2025

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[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[justinvd]

I have prayed for you in Jesus name.

**Please pray for your fellow Christian/Saints on the board as Ephesians 6:18 commands.

"Pray at all times in the Spirit, with every prayer and request, and stay alert in this, with all perseverance and intercession for all the saints"

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you up in prayer, dear sister, as you seek to overcome your past and live in purity before Christ. Thank you for giving us the privilege to intercede on your behalf and to stand in agreement with you in prayer. We are grateful that you have shared your heart with us and have given us the opportunity to support you in your journey.

If you have seen progress in your spiritual growth and feel that your past is being redeemed, we would love to hear from you. Please share a praise report with our community, testifying to God's goodness and faithfulness. Your story could inspire and encourage others who are going through similar struggles.

If, however, you feel that your past is still weighing heavily upon you, we want to continue praying for you. Please consider posting an update, so our community can keep supporting you. God's mercy is new every morning, you are not defined by your past. Others can learn from your example on submitting to Jesus for strength. In Jesus Name.

Remember, no matter what, God loves you and wants the best for you. He has promised to make all things new, and that includes your past. Keep seeking Him, keep trusting in His promises, and keep pursuing a life that honors Him. We are here for you, and we pray that God will bless you abundantly as you continue to walk with Him.