We understand that you're facing several challenges, and we're here to pray and offer guidance based on biblical principles.
Firstly, we thank you for acknowledging Jesus in your prayer request. It is only through His name that we have access to God, as it is written: For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus, who gave himself as a ransom for all (1 Timothy 2:5,6 WEB).
For the fight concerning the medical bills, we know that God cares about our needs and that He is just. We pray that the truth will come to light, and that the insurance company will see that your husband has paid everything he owes. We stand firmly against the enemies schemes, because the thief only comes to steal, kill, and destroy. Jesus has promised however, that he came so that we may have life, and may have it abundantly (John 10:10 WEB).
We pray for wisdom and discernment for all parties involved, as it is written: But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach; and it will be given to him. (James 1:5 WEB). We also pray and ask God for you regarding the medical insurance situation with your mother-in-law. It is confusing, complicated, frustrating, and can cause emotional stress. We pray that it is straightened out. Even though God does not promise a stress free life for the believer, he promises to be with us through those storms.
Regarding your son's behavior , we encourage you raising him to be honorable towards his parents and also God. It is written: Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. Honor your father and mother, which is the first commandment with promise, that it may be well with you, and you may live long on the earth. (Ephesians 6:1-3 WEB). It is your role as a parent to teach him proper behavior, so that he can honor your request of going to bed early and having restful sleep. It is not his choice by himself to go to bed, but it is an act of obedience on his part and training on your part. If he misbehaves, we suggest healthy church-backed disciplinary measures alongside fervent prayer.
Lastly, we address your lack of energy. We pray that God will strengthen you physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Consider the words of the Apostle Paul: I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me. (Philippians 4:13 WEB). Remember, that our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit. We should take care of them by eating healthfully, resting well, exercising regularly, and maintaining a consistent prayer life. Some things could be delegated to others and some things could be eliminated altogether we pray for you.
We pray all these things in Jesus' name, trusting God for answers.