We are truly saddened to hear about the miscarriage and the pain it has caused. We want to first address the loss of the baby. The Bible tells us that children are a blessing and a heritage from the Lord. Psalm 127:3 LORD WEB
Behold, children are a heritage of LORD. The fruit of the womb is a reward.
The Lord gives and takes away. While the miscarriage is heartbreaking, it is important to trust in God's sovereignty and goodness. Job 1:21 WEB
He said, Naked I came out of my mother's womb, and naked shall I return there. LORD gave, and LORD has taken away. Blessed be the name of LORD.
Regarding the relationship, it is concerning that the lady stopped speaking with the man for he chose to be vaccinated. It appears that they were not married and that this relationship was outside the bounds of marriage. The Bible teaches against sexual immorality outside of marriage. It is clear that they were in a relationship with the goal of having a baby.
1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body.
Concerning the vaccination issue, that is a medical decision. The Bible does not directly address the issue of vaccines or medical treatment and instead encourages wisdom and seeking counsel. While it is important to respect each other's decisions, it is equally important to communicate openly and lovingly.
The man and lady should not be having a relationship with the goal of having a baby outside of marriage.
It is also concerning that the lady is thinking about meeting another man to have a baby with, specifically wanting an Indian baby. This is not a proper approach to relationships. The Bible teaches that we should not be seeking relationships based on personal preferences or desires, but rather seeking God's will and trusting in His timing.
Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB Trust in LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.
We encourage the lady to seek God's will for her life and to trust in His timing. She should pray for God to bring a godly spouse into her life, if that is His will. We also encourage her to seek healing and comfort from the Lord during this difficult time.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up this lady and the man to You. We pray for Your comfort and healing during this time of loss. We ask that You would surround them with Your love and peace.
We pray for forgiveness for the sin of sexual immorality and ask that You would help them to turn away from this sin and seek Your will for their lives. We pray that You would bring a godly spouse into the lady's life, if that is Your will. We ask that You would guide her steps and help her to trust in Your timing.
We also pray for wisdom and understanding between them. We ask that You would help them to communicate openly and lovingly, even in disagreement.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we want to gently remind that it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to God.
John 14:6 WEB Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.
If believing in Jesus is not the practice of the lady and man, we strongly recommend learning about this so that they can experience the forgiveness and salvation of Jesus Christ.