We are truly sorry to hear about the hurt you're experiencing, blondiegal. The pain of perceived favoritism and inequity within a family can be deeply wounding. Let's turn to God's Word for guidance and comfort in this trying time.
Firstly, it's important to remember that God calls us to honor our parents, as stated in Ephesians 6:2-3 WEB: "Honor your father and mother, which is the first commandment with a promise, that it may be well with you, and you may live long on the earth." This doesn't negate your feelings, but it should be the foundation of your interactions with your mother.
However, it's also crucial to address the issue at hand. In Matthew 18:15 WEB, Jesus teaches us how to handle disputes: "If your brother sins against you, go, show him his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained back your brother." While this verse mentions a brother, the principle applies to any close relationship. It may be beneficial to have an open and honest conversation with your mother about your feelings, expressing your hurt rather than accusations.
It's also essential to guard your heart against bitterness and resentment. Ecclesiastes 7:9 WEB tells us, "Don't be quick in your spirit to be angry, for anger lodges in the heart of fools." Instead, strive for understanding and forgiveness, as Ephesians 4:32 WEB encourages: "Be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."
In your prayer time, remember to cast all your anxieties on Him, as Peter encourages in 1 Peter 5:7 WEB: "casting all your worries on him, because he cares for you."
Let us pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today lifting up blondiegal, asking for Your comfort and guidance in this difficult situation. Lord, help her to find the words to express her feelings to her mother in a way that honors You and promotes understanding. Protect her heart from bitterness and resentment, and fill her with Your love and forgiveness. Remind her that Your ways are higher than our ways, and that Your love for her is unfailing. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, blondiegal, we noticed that your request does not mention Jesus. We want to remind you that it's only through His name that we have access to God. As Acts 4:12 WEB states, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved." We encourage you to believe in Jesus Christ and His salvation message.