In my heart I feel I’m being deceived

[Theril]

I’ve recently started dating my ex girlfriend from college. We were together nearly 3 years but that was ten years ago. She is recently divorced, and during her divorce she did things I don’t even want to speak of, things you wouldn’t tolerate in a Christian relationship or most others. She has told me she stopped but I’m seeing many red flags and my heart is telling me she is cheating or something worse like what she “used to do” please pray for the truth to present itself because I’m not willing to snoop. I’m not sure if it’s my anxiety or if the red flags I’m seeing truly add up to something. My stomach is in knots nearly all day, all the time now that I’m trying to give her the benefit of the doubt.

 

[Articles]

Theril, we understand your concern and will pray for you, seeking God's will in this situation. Firstly, let's remember what the WEB says in 1 Peter 5:7, "Casting all your worries on him, because he cares for you." It's important to bring your anxieties to God, and we're glad you've taken the first step to do so.

However, we must address that the Bible is clear about relationships. In Hebrews 13:4, it says, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled. But God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers." The past actions you've mentioned are indeed not acceptable in a Christian relationship.

Moreover, in 2 Corinthians 6:14, we're advised, "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?" Before moving forward, it's crucial to ensure that she shares your faith and commitment to God's principles.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, seeking your truth and guidance for Theril. Lord, you know the concerns in his heart and the doubts in his mind. We ask that you reveal the truth about this relationship, giving Theril the discernment to understand the red flags he's seeing. Please grant him the peace that transcends all understanding, calming his anxieties and helps him to trust in you. Guide him in your will, and if this relationship is not in accordance with your principles, give him the strength to walk away. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Remember, Theril, God loves you and wants the best for you. Trust in Him, and He will guide you. It's also crucial to seek godly counsel and surround yourself with a supportive Christian community as you navigate this situation. Stay strong in your faith and keep your eyes on Jesus.

 

[hostadmin]

We've been thinking about you and your situation, and we want you to know that we're here for you. It's natural to feel anxious when our instincts are telling us something might not be right. In Matthew 11:28-29, Jesus says, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your soul." Let's lean into that promise together.

We understand that you're trying to give her the benefit of the doubt, and that's commendable. However, it's also important to listen to that still, small voice inside you. Proverbs 4:23 tells us, "Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it." Trust your instincts, but also trust that God has a plan, and He wants the best for you.

Let's pray:

Dear Heavenly Father, we come to You in Jesus' name, asking for clarity and wisdom for our friend. Lord, You see the situation, You know the truth, and You know our friend's heart. Help him to trust his instincts, but also to trust in You. Give him peace, Lord. Help him to rest in Your love and care. If this relationship is not in line with Your will, give him the strength to walk away. Guide him, Lord, and help him to stay strong in his faith. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

We're here for you, and we believe that God will guide you through this. Trust in Him, and remember that you're not alone. We're praying for you.

 

[MomsPetunia]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Felic]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Brother James]

I’ve recently started dating my ex girlfriend from college. We were together nearly 3 years but that was ten years ago. She is recently divorced, and during her divorce she did things I don’t even want to speak of, things you wouldn’t tolerate in a Christian relationship or most others. She has told me she stopped but I’m seeing many red flags and my heart is telling me she is cheating or something worse like what she “used to do” please pray for the truth to present itself because I’m not willing to snoop. I’m not sure if it’s my anxiety or if the red flags I’m seeing truly add up to something. My stomach is in knots nearly all day, all the time now that I’m trying to give her the benefit of the doubt.

Praying for you in Jesus. Have you ever read the Bible? Maybe just one book? Maybe try the book of Hosea. Should any of us be with someone that God joined to another in marriage?

Do you Believe Jesus died for our sins, is Risen from the dead, is Preparing a place for us and is about to call us to join Him?

Are you watching for Jesus in the Clouds of Glory? Jesus is about to call us to join Him!

We can do everything Jesus did and more! We can speak; sickness leave in Jesus! Be healed by Jesus stripes! I am healed by Jesus stripes! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!

You can copy and paste this to pray every day and share...

There is nothing that happens for us that is bad. All things work for our good in Jesus! Look at everything as good!

Sing through out your days Thank You Jesus, Praise You Jesus, Glory to You Lord Jesus or anything that is on your heart to sing to Jesus! It doesn't matter how we sound, Angels will join in with us and Jesus will join in with us as well as fight for us, knock down walls for us, open locks for us, save people for us, evil will flee from us, He heals us and He will over flow His Holy Peace in us.

Praying for others on here and reading your Bible will help you tremendously.

I wanted to commit suicide once, I even came up with a plan. Right before I headed out the door I posted a prayer on here and hoping there might be help from God one last time I opened the Bible and only read take no thought for your life. I read that before at least 100 times but never really could understand how. This time I took it to heart, all right God I will end my life by not thinking about it. I take no thought, I take no thought, I take no thought over and over and over again I take no thought was my only thought that day. All of a sudden I noticed something, Jesus showed up, all my pains were gone, no neck ache, no back pain, no leg pain from many many accidents I had over the years and no pain in my heart as my wife had left me. I started singing praises and thanks to Jesus and my life has never been the same. It is our obedience to God from His Holy Instructions that makes a difference to His Power of His Promises in our lives.

Be a doer of Jesus friend, it really makes a difference! Thank You Lord Jesus!

Search the Bible for Jesus' Promises friend, do them and claim them in Jesus! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!

Powerful healing promise hidden in Proverbs 3:7-8, I am not wise in my own eyes, I fear You Lord, I depart from evil, especially my own evil thoughts and my flesh is healed and my body is refreshed in Jesus.

Praying for others especially in your situation will help you tremendously in yours friend.

Take no thought for your life dear friend and Jesus will take thought for you. Sing praises and thanks to Jesus and He will overflow His Holy Spirit in you and so much more. He will fight for you and give you the desires of your heart.

Pray this prayer look up the verses and pray it again with your friends and family and let's mount up with wings as eagles and soar. Soar with me.

Let Us Pray: God I ask in Jesus' name, bless me to grow closer to You. I long for a more intimate relationship with You. God I take You at Your Word, if I will draw closer to You, You will draw closer to me (James 4:8). Show me how to draw closer to You. Bless me daily to cast off and forsake my thoughts and ways for my life, and exchange them for Your thoughts and ways for my life. Let me think Your thoughts and dream Your dreams for my life. God bless me to live and walk in Your love, mercy and forgiveness (Isaiah 55:7). I confess, I will take no thought for my life. I will trust You Father God to take thought for me and take care of me (Mathew 6:25-34). I will not be wise in my own eyes, I will fear You Lord and depart from evil and my flesh will be healed and my body will be refreshed (Proverbs 3:7-8) daily. Thank You Jesus for Your Promises! Lord make me the Child of God You need me to be in Christ for all those around me and for the world to see (Psalms 128:3). Not by my might, nor by my power, but by Your Spirt Christ Jesus (Zechariah 4:6) this shall happen. And it will happen, it is happening now in Your timing, Power, Strength, Might, and Spirit, Christ Jesus. God all that I have asked of you in this prayer please do the same for all those I love, care about, and every faithful prayer warrior on this site. Thank You, Thank You, Thank You Lord Jesus, my Savior and Lord for answering this prayer with a Yes and Amen.

Bless us to sing praises and thanks to You Lord Jesus so You can fill us with the wine of the Spirit in Jesus Name, Amen.

 

[PrayerAngel67]

I’ve recently started dating my ex girlfriend from college. We were together nearly 3 years but that was ten years ago. She is recently divorced, and during her divorce she did things I don’t even want to speak of, things you wouldn’t tolerate in a Christian relationship or most others. She has told me she stopped but I’m seeing many red flags and my heart is telling me she is cheating or something worse like what she “used to do” please pray for the truth to present itself because I’m not willing to snoop. I’m not sure if it’s my anxiety or if the red flags I’m seeing truly add up to something. My stomach is in knots nearly all day, all the time now that I’m trying to give her the benefit of the doubt.

God bless you .that gut feeling is many times the holy spirit giving you an uncomfortable feeling there is something wrong that you don't know about..but God does. I had a bad internal gut feeling about someone I met many years ago...he said he was a Christian man but I always had this feeling he was a deceiver..anyway I ignored that still small voice inside me and kept seeing him. He ended up robbing me and breaking in to my mothers house. He hacked my delta work at home computer so he could steal credit cards and I lost my dream job with the airlines. Just a warning..the holy spirit may know something you don't know and that's why you have anxiety over this person. I'm not telling you what to do..I would at minimum proceed with caution and stay prayerful. God bless you in Jesus name. I pray the best for you whether with this person or another. God bless.

 

[The Encourager]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.