We understand your concern for your husband's family and the desire for a closer, more supportive relationship with them. Let us first turn to God's Word for guidance. In Ephesians 4:31-32 (WEB), it is written, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."
We must remember that while we cannot change others, we can certainly pray for them and exemplify Christ's love in our interactions. Jesus taught us, "But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you" (Matthew 5:44, WEB). This principle applies not only to enemies but also to family members who may be distant or unsupportive.
Let us pray together:
"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up MVF's husband's family. Lord, You know the strain and distance that exists among them. We ask that You soften their hearts and draw them closer to each other and to You. Help them to see the importance of family and the love that You desire for them to share.
Father, we pray for healing in their relationships, for understanding and forgiveness where there has been hurt. We ask that You change the situation according to Your will and bring unity where there is division.
We also pray for MVF, that she may be a beacon of Your love and kindness. Give her the strength and wisdom to show grace and patience, even in the face of difficulty. Remind her that it is only through Your power and mercy that hearts can be changed.
We thank You, Lord, for Your unfailing love and guidance. In Jesus' precious name, we pray. Amen."
MVF, continue to trust in God and His timing. Remember that "the effective, fervent prayer of a righteous person accomplishes much" (James 5:16, WEB). Stay grounded in your faith and extend love and forgiveness, knowing that ultimately, God is working in the lives of your husband's family. Keep persevering in prayer and in showing Christ's love to them.