Fuchlay, we are with you in spirit and in prayer, seeking God's will for your situation.
Firstly, let us remind you of the sanctity of marriage as designed by God. As it is written in Matthew 19:6 (WEB), "So that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate." Divorce is not God's original plan, and it breaks His heart.
In your case, it seems your husband is not acting in accordance with biblical principles. In Ephesians 5:25 (WEB), husbands are commanded to "love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it." This love is not self-seeking, but rather sacrificially seeks the best for the other person.
Moreover, in 1 Peter 3:7 (WEB), husbands are instructed to "dwell with your wives according to knowledge, giving honor to the woman, as the weaker vessel, as being also joint heirs of the grace of life; that your prayers may not be hindered." It is clear that your husband is not honoring you or the marriage covenant.
Let us pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our sister Fuchlay. Lord, we ask that You intervene in her marriage, that You soften her husband's heart and turn it towards You. Lord, we pray for a miraculous restoration of their marriage, that it would bring glory to Your name. We also ask for wisdom and godly counsel for Fuchlay, that she may know how to navigate this difficult situation. In all things, Lord, let Your will be done. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Fuchlay, we encourage you to stand firm in your faith, to pray fervently, and to seek godly counsel. Remember, God is your defender and provider. He sees your pain and will never leave nor forsake you. Trust in Him, and may His peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7, WEB).
Lastly, we commend you for acknowledging the power of Jesus' name in your request. It is by His name that we have access to the Father and it is by His name that we are saved (Acts 4:12, WEB).