I’m Suffering

[Anonymous]

God doesn’t answer me , blesses other people faster, seees me crying, begging, asking for mercy for a simple prayer. If you can pray harder than me to get Him to answer to me, please do. I am holding on to so much hope and faith and is getting tired. I just want friends and a boyfriend. A guy has never taken any interest me, not even a kiss at 20 and God can’t even get a guy to talk to me. I hate Him!!

 

[Articles]

We understand that you're feeling frustrated and disheartened, but we want to remind you that God is always faithful, and He hears your prayers. It's important to remember that God's timing is not always the same as ours, and His ways are higher than our ways. As it is written in Isaiah 55:8-9 WEB:

For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, says Yahweh. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts.

It's also crucial to address the feelings you're having towards God. It's normal to feel frustrated, but we must remember that God is good, and His love for us is unfailing. As Psalm 136 WEB reminds us repeatedly, "for his loving kindness endures forever." We should not let temporary circumstances cause us to harbor negative feelings towards God. Instead, we should continually declare His goodness and love for us. Also, be aware that saying you hate God is a strong statement that must be addressed. In 1 John 4:20 WEB we are told:

If a man says, I love God, and hates his brother, he is a liar; for he who doesn't love his brother whom he has seen, how can he love God whom he has not seen?

We also want to address your desires. It's natural to want friends and a spouse, but we should approach these desires with a biblical perspective. Proverbs 18:24 WEB says:

A man of many companions may be ruined, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.

Concerning marriage, it is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. We should pray for godly spouses and marriages that honor God. Be a Christian Believer looking for a spouse rather than a boyfriend looking for physical intimacy. It is best to focus on growing in your relationship with Christ and becoming the person God has called you to be. As you pursue God, He will bring the right people into your life in His perfect timing.

Regarding your prayers, it's important to pray in Jesus' name. As Jesus said in John 14:13-14 WEB:

Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you will ask anything in my name, I will do it.

We also must remember that Jesus said in Matthew 6:33, WEB:

But seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well.

Let us pray for you:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today in the name of Jesus, lifting up Anonymous. Lord, we ask that You would strengthen their faith and hope, and help them to trust in Your perfect timing and ways. We're informed that they're seeking marriage and friends. Father, we pray for godly friends and a godly spouse for them in Your will and in Your timing. We pray that they would grow in their relationship with You, and that You would bring the right people into their life.

We also pray that You would help them to see Your goodness and love, even in difficult times. Help them to forgive any resentment they may have and to remember that Your ways are higher than our ways.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We're right there with you, feeling your frustration and disappointment. It's tough when it feels like God isn't answering, isn't He? But remember, God sees you, He hears you. He's just not on our timeline. We've got to trust that His ways are best, even when we don't understand.

We know you're hurting, but please, don't let that hurt turn into bitterness towards God. He loves you so much, more than you can imagine. Let's keep our hearts soft towards Him, even in the waiting. Let's keep praying, keep seeking, keep trusting.

And hey, about that guy, maybe it's time to let that go. It's hard, we know, but God has someone special in mind for you. Someone who'll appreciate you, love you, like you deserve to be loved. Let's trust God with that too, yeah?

Let's keep praying, together. "Lord, we lift up our sister/brother to You. Help them to keep their eyes on You, to trust in Your love and Your plan. Help them to let go of the hurt and the frustration, and to keep hoping, keep believing. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[Kroeseinnor]

God does listen. He hears you. He knows you’re struggling. I know people in there 30s still looking for a soulmate. Don’t rush it or you will get the wrong dude. I will pray for you as it seems mean not to. But be patient. Your time will come. And now you probably think that I have a boyfriend or girlfriend but I don’t. Just pray take a couple of breaths and be patient. If your struggling I like to read psalms it’s really good for prayer

 

[hadassah]

When we don't have an understanding of who God is, we see him as not caring or mean. Instead of seeing Him as uncaring and blessing others, change your mind to see that you are blessed. To you it may not seem it, because you belief is you are not, but scripture says that He has blessed us with all spiritual blessings, health, wholeness, provision, protection. I want to stop at protection for a moment. You want friends and a guy to pay attention to you. You beg and plead with God and then when he doesn't seem to answer, you hate him. There are lots of people who think God doesn't care because our prayers don't get answered. What if it's simply we don't understand his ways or his word, because there are over 3000 promises, and we fail to see just what He has done. Because it seems you are desperate for friends or a guy to pay attention to you, let's consider something. Perhaps you are being protected from bad people who would use you and then discard you. There are plenty of people who are out for themselves.
You beg and plead with God, why not simply start thanking him for the friends that are destined to cross your path, people who are caring and loving and who care about you. Fill your life with thanksgiving and gratitude and watch your life change.

Father thank you that Your plans and purposes for this person is for good and not for evil. Thank you that You are light and I speak Light and life to them, peace. In Jesus name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.