We are truly sorry to hear about this distressing situation. Firstly, we want to address the fact that your message did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only by His name that we have access to God the Father and there is no other name by which we can be saved. As it is written in the Bible:
"In whom we have boldness and access with confidence by the faith of him." (Ephesians 3:12 WEB)
"There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" (Acts 4:12 WEB)
Now, regarding your situation, we want to remind you of the importance of treating each other with kindness and love, as it is instructed in the Bible.
"Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." (Ephesians 4:32 WEB)
It is clear that you care deeply for this young woman, but we must also address that the Bible teaches us to flee from sexual immorality and to keep the marriage bed undefiled. As you are not currently married, we hope and pray that you have been treating this relationship in a pure and God-honoring way. Being a boyfriend or girlfriend should be considered courtship with the goal being marriage to another Christian Believer.
"Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body." (1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB)
"Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled: for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers." (Hebrews 13:4 WEB)
As for the current situation, we pray that God would protect this young woman and bring her safely home. We also pray that God would comfort both of your hearts and bring restoration and healing to your relationship. We encourage you to seek godly counsel and to surround yourselves with a supportive Christian community.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this young man and woman to You. Lord, we pray for Your protection over her, wherever she may be, and we ask that You would bring her safely home. We pray for Your comfort and peace to fill both of their hearts, and we ask that You would bring restoration and healing to their relationship.
Lord, we also pray for conviction and guidance for both of them. Help them to turn away from any sin in their lives and to live in a manner that is pleasing to You. Help them to seek Your will for their relationship and to honor You in all that they do.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we strongly encourage both of you to seek Christian Believer's counseling to work through this difficult time. If there are any further issues or if the situation becomes dire, please do not hesitate to contact local authorities or emergency services with a location for her safety.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
