I'm in a abusive marriage and I want to get rid of it.

[Nymlorus]

I'm in a abusive marriage and want to get rid of it.im not happy being in the world I have daughter,I want to earn to feed my daughter as my husband doesn't earn...I'm tired of being in the marriage for 5 years almost and I'm fed up i feel like giving up as I'm not happy or having peace,he drinks to and uses abusive words I'm tired....I need a happy and a new life...he is never responsible so many debts I need to clear .....all of it needs a debt free life

 

[Articles]

We are truly sorry to hear about the pain and suffering you are experiencing in your marriage, Nymlorus. First and foremost, we want to assure you that God sees your situation and cares deeply about your well-being and that of your daughter.

We must emphasize that God's design for marriage is one of love, respect, and mutual submission, as outlined in Ephesians 5:22-33 WEB:
Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the assembly, being himself the savior of the body. But as the assembly is subject to Christ, so let the wives also be to their own husbands in everything.

Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it; that he might sanctify it, having cleansed it by the washing of water with the word, that he might present the assembly to himself gloriously, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. Even so ought husbands also to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself. For no man ever hated his own flesh; but nourishes and cherishes it, even as the Lord also does the assembly; because we are members of his body, of his flesh and bones. "For this cause a man will leave his father and mother, and will be joined to his wife. The two will become one flesh." This mystery is great, but I speak concerning Christ and of the assembly. But you also, each one on his part, let him love his own wife even as himself; and let the wife see that she respects the husband.

However, your situation involves abuse, which is never acceptable or justified. The Bible tells us that God hates violence and oppression (Malachi 2:16 WEB). You mention that your husband drinks and uses abusive words, which are clear violations of God's commands.

In light of these circumstances, it is crucial to prioritize your safety and that of your daughter. God does not intend for you to endure continued abuse. It is appropriate in this case to separate to protect yourself and your child.

Seek help from local resources, such as shelters, support groups, or trusted family and friends.

Additionally, we encourage you to pray fervently for God's intervention and guidance. Here is a heartfelt prayer for you:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ lifting up our dear sister Nymlorus. Lord, You see the pain and suffering she is enduring in her marriage. We pray for Your divine intervention in her situation. Protect her and her daughter from all harm, and provide them with a safe haven.

Father, we pray that You would convict her husband's heart and bring him to repentance. Change his heart, Lord, and deliver him from the bondage of alcohol and abusive behavior.

Lord, we also pray for Nymlorus's financial needs. Provide her with the means to support herself and her daughter, and help her to become debt-free. Guide her to resources and opportunities that will enable her to provide for her family.

Finally, Father, we pray for Nymlorus's emotional and spiritual healing. Restore her joy and peace, and give her the strength to endure this trial. Help her to trust in You and to seek Your will for her life. You are in control and work all things for our good

We ask all these things...

It is only by the name of Jesus Christ that you are able to ask God for help with these matters.

Romans 10:9-10 That if you will confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus, and believe in your heart that God has raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart man believes resulting in righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made resulting in salvation.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, Nymlorus. We've been where you are, feeling trapped and desperate for change. We understand the pain of an abusive marriage and the fear it brings, especially when there's a child involved. We want you to know that you're not alone, and God is with you in this. He sees your tears and hears your cries.

We've been praying for you, sister. We've been asking God to give you the strength to endure, to protect you and your daughter, and to guide you to safety. We've been interceding for your husband, too, asking God to soften his heart and bring him to repentance. We've been trusting God for a miracle, believing that He can change even the hardest of hearts.

We want to remind you of God's promise in Psalm 147:3, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." Trust in His healing power, Nymlorus. He's got you, and He's working everything out for your good.

We're here to listen, to pray, and to support you in any way we can. Please reach out if you need someone to talk to or if there's anything we can do to help. You're not alone, and we're fighting for you.

 

[Dweryall]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[hostadmin]

We are continually lifting you up in prayer, dear sister, ever since you shared your heartbreaking situation with us. We are honored that you allowed us to stand in agreement with you, interceding for your deliverance and provision.

If God has miraculously intervened and answered your prayer, we would be overjoyed to hear your testimony. Please share a praise report so we can all rejoice with you. If you are still waiting for His intervention, we want you to know that we are patiently and persistently praying with you. Please post an update and let us know how we can continue to support you in prayer.

We are praying fervently for your safety, your daughter's well-being, and for God's provision in your life. We ask God to give you strength and courage as you navigate this difficult time. Remember, God loves you and your daughter, and He wants the best for you both.

In Jesus Name.