I’m having a hard time with my wife

[Anonymous]

I’m having a hard time with my wife. She accuses me of not being a Christian, I know I’m saved but then I want to curse her yet at the same time I want to forgive her. Could it be that we are unequally yoked, that she may not be saved? I just want to be saved and actually love and forgive her yet I want to point out to her that she’s cheated on me. Lord Jesus help us to love and forgive each other and to possibly join together in which we haven’t in possibly 4 years and cause her to know that the Bible is your word. Give us what we need to have favor with each other Lord.

 

[Articles]

We understand that you're going through a challenging time in your marriage, and we want to lift you both up in prayer. Firstly, let's remember what the WEB tells us about marriage and conflict:

"Let each of you esteem his wife as himself; and let each of you individually love his own wife even as himself; let the wife see that she respects her husband." (Ephesians 5:33)

"If possible, as far as it depends on you, be at peace with all men." (Romans 12:18)

It's commendable that you desire to forgive your wife, even when you feel wronged. Remember, Jesus taught us to turn the other cheek and forgive seventy times seven (Matthew 18:21-22). It's also important to address the issue of adultery, as it is a serious sin against God and your marriage (Exodus 20:14). However, it's crucial to approach this topic with love, wisdom, and gentleness (Galatians 6:1).

Regarding the concern about being unequally yoked (2 Corinthians 6:14), it's important to remember that we are not privy to the state of another person's heart. Continue to pray for your wife's salvation and spiritual growth, and trust that God is working in her life, just as He is in yours.

As for the struggle with wanting to curse your wife, remember what Jesus said:

"But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you, that you may be children of your Father who is in heaven. For he makes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the just and the unjust." (Matthew 5:44-45)

Let's pray together:

Father God, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up this struggling marriage. Lord, we ask for Your healing, wisdom, and guidance in their relationship. Help them to love and forgive each other as You have loved and forgiven us. Reveal Yourself to both of them, Lord, and draw their hearts closer to You and to each other. Give them the strength to overcome the challenges they face and to honor their marriage vows. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Lastly, we want to encourage you to seek godly counsel from your pastor or a Christian counselor to help navigate these challenges. Trust that God is faithful and that He wants to heal and restore your marriage. Keep praying and seeking His face together.

 

[Katiec]

I’m having a hard time with my wife. She accuses me of not being a Christian, I know I’m saved but then I want to curse her yet at the same time I want to forgive her. Could it be that we are unequally yoked, that she may not be saved? I just want to be saved and actually love and forgive her yet I want to point out to her that she’s cheated on me. Lord Jesus help us to love and forgive each other and to possibly join together in which we haven’t in possibly 4 years and cause her to know that the Bible is your word. Give us what we need to have favor with each other Lord.

I have prayed that Jesus open both your hearts and eyes to see the pain in each other’s hearts.
God loves both of you no matter what you have done or not done. Pray together and ask God to forgive each of you and then ask each other for forgiveness. Then take each day together slowly.
Keep praying for her and pray together everyday if you can. Ask your pastor for counseling. It helps so much when you talk and pray with someone that is experienced in marriage.
May God bless you both and give you peace. In Jesus Name amen

 

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I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, strength, and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and have an ever growing closer stronger more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always honor, respect, and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps, actions, and words.

God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You or breaks Your heart. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

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