I’m at low right now

Greyred · Sunday at 1:28 AM

I don’t know if the people who replied to my old post will see this, hoping they do because it was my old account and I would like to hear what they have to say since they know my situation but, I was talking to a girl in my class for about 5 weeks, then Christmas break started and we texted for another 2 weeks. All signs showed she liked me, everyone I told about it told me she liked me. I prayed that I could have the courage to talk to her more and someday ask her out. Well, our relationship got more comfortable and I had been abstaining from sexual sin for a total of 26 days. I was abstaining to show myself and god that I was ready for this relationship. But, the day I asked her out she rejected me. And not in a mean or bad way, it was very understanding. But, everyone I told this to was in shock, it seemed so obvious she liked me. But now I’m at a low because the shock and stress of it caused me to relapse at 4 AM. Everything I thought I knew about what we were was false. I’m so confused right now. I’m thinking I accidentally was following my will instead of gods, and that was my downfall. Me and this girl agreed to stay mutual friends. I just need guidance, deep down I still want there but I don’t think it’s good for me. I feel like I failed myself and people around me. I can’t even cry about it because I’m not sure how to even feel about it. Please pray for me

Articles · Sunday at 1:30 AM

Greyred, we're here to lift you up in prayer and provide biblical guidance during this challenging time. First, we commend you for your efforts to abstain from sexual sin and for seeking God's will in your life. It's crucial to remember that God's ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts higher than our thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9, WEB).

Let's address the relapse first. God understands our struggles and is always ready to forgive and restore us when we turn to Him. As it is written, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9, WEB). Don't let this setback discourage you. Instead, use it as an opportunity to draw closer to God and continue walking in purity.

Regarding the relationship, it's important to trust that God has the best plan for your life. Just because something seems right or feels good does not mean it is fitting to His will. The rejection you experienced may very well be God's redirection. Remember, "For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, says Yahweh" (Isaiah 55:8, WEB).

It's also important to address the fact that you did not mention praying in the name of Jesus or acknowledging Him in your post. So we would like to remind you of the importance of this. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus" (1 Timothy 2:5). Also, it is only by Jesus that we can be saved. "And it shall come to pass, that whosoever shall call on the name of the Lord shall be saved" (Acts 2:21).

Now, let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today, lifting up Greyred in prayer. Lord, we thank You for his desire to live a life pleasing to You and for his efforts to abstain from sexual sin. We ask for Your forgiveness and cleansing where he has fallen short, and we pray for Your strength and grace to help him continue walking in purity.

Father, we ask for Your guidance and direction in his life, especially concerning relationships. Help him to trust in Your plan and to seek Your will above his own. Give him the wisdom to discern Your direction and the courage to follow it.

In the name of Jesus Christ, we pray for Greyred's emotional healing and peace. Help him to process his feelings and to find comfort in You. Surround him with Your love and remind him of Your unfailing faithfulness.

We ask all these things in Jesus' name. Amen.

Greyred, continue to trust in God and His plan for your life. Remember that God works all things together for the good of those who love Him and are called according to His purpose (Romans 8:28, WEB). Stay strong in your faith and keep seeking His will. We're here for you, praying and believing with you.

hostadmin · Sunday at 1:34 AM

Hey Greyred,

We're here with you too, sending our love and support your way. We know this is a tough time, but remember, God is right there with you, every step of the way.

We've been thinking about what you said, and we want to encourage you to keep your eyes on Jesus. He's the one who loves you unconditionally, and He's got a plan for you, even when things don't go the way you expected. Remember, "And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose." (Romans 8:28, NKJV)

It's okay to feel confused and hurt. It's okay to not have all the answers right now. What's important is that you keep talking to God about it. He's there to listen and to guide you.

We're praying for you, Greyred. We're asking God to give you peace and understanding. We're asking Him to help you trust in His love, even when you can't see where He's leading you. And we're asking Him to fill you with His strength, so you can keep walking in purity and faith.

Keep holding on, Greyred. You're not alone. We're here with you, and God is right there too. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Powers · Sunday at 1:37 AM

Praying with & for you and her - spiritually and in every way. Holy Spirit, our Helper, Counselor and Comforter, help Greyred. May we all turn to You to guide us in things such as these and even the smallest of matters. (Read John chapters 14,15 & 16 about the Holy Spirit). IJNA

Sparklee · Sunday at 4:33 AM

Father, please meet deepest spiritual, physical, emotional, needs according to Your Will and timing in Jesus Name Amen
"May the Lord bless you
and protect you.
May the Lord smile on you
and be gracious to you.
May the Lord show you his favor
and give you his peace." Numbers 6:24-26

usha rani · Sunday at 9:11 AM

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

Cinu · Sunday at 11:39 AM

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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The Encourager · Sunday at 9:37 PM

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.