I'm 45 years old and single. I think it might be time for me to find a wife.

[Goghysk]

Online I am often told, "Jesus is all you need". I understand that point of view, but I live with a learning disability, that has caused me a lot of issues. Even at 45 years of age, I find myself still living with my parents because I don't have the skills to go at life all by myself. However if I had a partner in life things might work. You see my parents are 76 years old, and someday I will be all by myself. Plus as a guy I have other desires too. As a single those desires must be stuffed away, and denied. To make matters worse, I don't have any friends either. I don't know what is wrong with me. I try to be as kind as I can to everyone including those that I don't agree with. But things between me and others don't ever take. I haven't gone to Church since 2021. Because every Church I have tried since, 2001, don't seem care about me. I think the reason is, I'm a janitor. I don't have a lot of skills, and even people in the Church consider me to be a lowlife. I may need to be emotionally healed before marriage. But that is whole point of this prayer request. Whatever in me that needs to be fixed, I can't fix it myself. So I come here and ask that someone pray to Jesus to ask him to help fix me.

 

[Articles]

We understand your heart's desire, Goghysk, and we come alongside you in prayer, seeking God's will for your life. It's commendable that you're considering marriage, as it is a blessed union designed by God (Genesis 2:24, WEB).

Firstly, we want to address the notion that "Jesus is all you need." While it's true that Jesus is our source of eternal life and spiritual fulfillment (John 4:14, WEB), the Bible also teaches that God created us for relationship and community (Genesis 2:18, WEB). It's natural to desire companionship, and it's not wrong to seek a spouse.

We also want to acknowledge your feelings of loneliness and your desire for emotional healing. God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18, WEB). He can heal your emotional wounds and provide comfort in your loneliness.

Regarding your struggles with finding a community in church, we encourage you not to give up. God calls us to meet together and encourage one another (Hebrews 10:24-25, WEB). It's disheartening to hear that you've felt looked down upon due to your job. Remember that in Christ, there is neither slave nor free, there is no male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus (Galatians 3:28, WEB). Every person has value and purpose in God's eyes.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in Jesus' name, lifting up Goghysk. Lord, you know his heart's desire for a spouse, and you see his loneliness. We ask that you bring emotional healing and provide him with godly friends and a community that accepts and loves him as you do. Guide him to a church where he feels valued and can grow spiritually. We also pray that if it is your will, you would bring a godly wife into his life, that they may encourage and support each other in their walk with you. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

We encourage you, Goghysk, to keep trusting in God and seeking His will for your life. He loves you and has a plan for you (Jeremiah 29:11, WEB). Keep pursuing a relationship with Him and with others, knowing that your identity and value are found in Christ.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear your heart's longing, brother, and we're here with you, praying for God's will in your life. It's commendable that you're considering marriage, as it's a blessed union designed by God. We understand your feelings of loneliness and your desire for emotional healing. God is indeed close to the brokenhearted, and He can heal your wounds and provide comfort.

We also want to encourage you not to give up on finding a church community. God calls us to meet together and encourage one another. Remember, every person has value and purpose in God's eyes. Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in Jesus' name, lifting up our brother. Lord, you know his heart's desire for a spouse and see his loneliness. We ask that you bring emotional healing and provide him with godly friends and a community that accepts and loves him as you do. Guide him to a church where he feels valued and can grow spiritually. We also pray that if it is your will, you would bring a godly wife into his life, that they may encourage and support each other in their walk with you. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Keep trusting in God and seeking His will for your life. He loves you and has a plan for you. Keep pursuing a relationship with Him and with others, knowing that your identity and value are found in Christ.

 

[Goghysk]

Dear Heavenly Father, I pray blessings on those that just prayed for me. This is my first post here, and I feel blessed. Thank for you for this, In Jesus Name Amen.

I don't take these prayers for granted. I've been to many different Christian forums and social sites over the years. I think many of those sites need prayer, because the advice they give people like me isn't good.

 

[Felic]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Glogaria]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(ESV)

Salvation: - And they said, “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved, you and your household.” Acts 16:31(ESV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he said to me, “This is the word of the Lord to Zerubbabel: Not by might, nor by power, but by my Spirit, says the Lord of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(ESV)

Persecutions: - “But I say to you who hear, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you. Luke 6:27-28(ESV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)


sermons

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Stitcher]

Father, please help this man find a supportive church that loves him and where he can grow and be part of ministry. Please heal him emotionally. Help him to form relationships

Some counselors can teach you to notice social cues if that is an issue. It is with people with disabilities on the spectrum, like Asberger's or autism, or mild versions of it. They can give you tools to work with others.
Never, ever feel badly about your job because God is honored by your honest hard work. There are churches where people with "blue collar" jobs attend and are happy.
I pray that you find friendships and relationships and a wife, and a job that you enjoy.
God bless.