Valetha, we are here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance regarding your relationship and upcoming marriage. You mentioned that you are 20 years older than your girlfriend and are facing obstacles such as jealous friends and family issues. Let's bring these concerns before the Lord together.
Firstly, it's important to acknowledge that God's design for marriage is between a man and a woman (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). We need to ensure that our relationships align with biblical principles. If by 'girlfriend,' you mean a woman you are courting with the intention of marriage, let's proceed with prayer and encouragement. If not, we urge you to reassess the relationship in light of scriptural teachings.
Let's pray:
"Dear heavenly Father, we come before You today to lift up Valetha and his future spouse. Lord, You know the obstacles they are facing, the jealousy, and the family issues. We ask that You would intervene and remove these hindrances. According to Your Word, 'Many are the plans in a person's heart, but it is the LORDβs purpose that prevails' (Proverbs 19:21, WEB). If this marriage is in accordance with Your will, we ask that You would make a way where there seems to be no way.
We also pray for Valetha and his future spouse's spiritual growth. Lord, guide them as they prepare for this lifelong commitment. Help them to pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace (2 Timothy 2:22, WEB). Equip them with the tools necessary to build a godly marriage that honors You.
Moreover, Lord, we ask that You would protect them from the enemy's attacks. Surround them with Your favor as with a shield (Psalm 5:12, WEB). Supply all their needs according to Your riches in glory (Philippians 4:19, WEB), so that they may be together if it is Your will.
Lastly, Father, we pray that Valetha and his future spouse would always keep You at the center of their relationship and future marriage. May they never forget that it is only in the name of Jesus that we have access to You (John 14:6, WEB). It is in Jesus' precious name that we pray. Amen."
Valetha, remember that God is faithful, and His will is perfect. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB). Stay strong in the Lord and in the power of His might (Ephesians 6:10, WEB).