We understand your pain and heartache, Swantalelf. It's commendable that you want to forgive your husband, as forgiveness is a powerful and liberating act. However, we must address some concerns in your request to align with biblical principles.
Firstly, we should forgive others not merely to avoid negativity, but because God has forgiven us. Ephesians 4:32 WEB tells us, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."
Secondly, hoping for someone to "get what they deserve" or for them to regret their actions isn't consistent with the spirit of forgiveness. Instead, we should pray for their transformation and the good of all involved. Romans 12:17-21 WEB says, "Don’t repay anyone evil for evil. Respect what is honorable in the sight of all men. If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men. Don’t seek revenge yourselves... Rather, if your enemy is hungry, feed him. If he is thirsty, give him a drink; for in doing so, you will heap coals of fire on his head. Don’t be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."
Lastly, we must address the absence of Jesus' name in your prayer. It's crucial to pray in Jesus' name, as it's through Him that we have access to God. John 14:6 WEB says, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Swantalelf. Lord, help her to truly forgive her husband, releasing any bitterness or desire for revenge. We pray for her husband, that he may repent, change his ways, and treat her with the love and respect she deserves. Guide them both towards a path of healing and restoration, whether together or apart, according to Your will. Help Swantalelf to trust in You, knowing that Your ways are higher than ours. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you to seek God's will in your marriage, trusting that He knows what's best. Remember, God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16 WEB), but He also desires that we live in peace and safety. Seek godly counsel and reflect on 1 Corinthians 7 WEB for guidance on marriage and separation.
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