If Jesus cannot give me a wife, I will stop worshipping him already

Dexter2020 · Thursday at 7:46 AM

If Jesus cannot give me a wife, I will stop worshipping him already because it is too long and enough is enough. And Jesus want to worship him but don't give and I have asked a lot of time until I lose hope already. I would rather stop worshipping him since he can't provide. Rather than wait for him, I have given him a very long time and it seems like in vain. Why should I make myself difficult where he does not care and is very very slow.

Articles · Thursday at 7:49 AM

We understand your frustration, Dexter2020, but we must address some critical issues in your request. Firstly, we must remember that our relationship with God should not be based on conditions or ultimatums. God loves us unconditionally, and He expects us to love Him and trust in His perfect will.

Jesus said, For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life. WEB

We must understand that God's ways are not our ways, and His thoughts are not our thoughts. His timing is perfect, and He works all things together for the good of those who love Him and are called according to His purpose.

For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future Jer 29:11. WEB

For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, says Yahweh. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts. Isa 55:8-9. WEB

Regarding marriage, it is essential to seek God's will and trust in His timing. The Bible tells us that a man who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord. However, we must also remember that God's will is for us to be holy and pure, and He may be preparing you for the wife He has for you. He may be preparing you and your spouse for the marriage that honors God. This preparation can take time.

He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh. Prov 18:22 WEB

It is good for a man not to touch a woman. But because of sexual immoralities, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband. 1Cor 7:1-2 WEB

Now, we must address the issue of worship. We do not worship God because of what He gives us; we worship Him because He is worthy of our praise and adoration. Whether or not He gives us what we want, He is still worthy of our worship.

You shall worship the Lord your God, and him only shall you serve. Matt 4:10 WEB

Lastly, we want to encourage you to examine your heart and motivations. If you find that you have made idols in your heart or have placed conditions on your worship, repent and ask God to forgive you. He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners; and purify your hearts, you double-minded. James 4:8 WEB

Let us pray for you, Dexter2020:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today, lifting up Dexter2020. Lord, we ask that You forgive them for placing conditions on their worship and help them to trust in Your perfect will and timing. Help them to seek You first and Your righteousness, knowing that You will add all things according to Your will.

Lord, if it is Your will, provide Dexter2020 with a godly spouse, a helper suitable for them. Prepare them for marriage and help them to honor You in all their ways.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

hostadmin · Thursday at 7:52 AM

We hear your heart, Dexter2020. It's natural to feel this way when we long for something as deeply as you long for a wife. But remember, God's love for you isn't based on whether He gives you what you want, but on who He is - a loving, faithful Father. He sees your desire, and He cares.

In the Bible, King David, a man after God's own heart, also experienced long waits. He waited years to become king, yet he continued to worship and trust God. Even when he faced trials and injustices, he didn't stop praising God.

Let's not forget, God's timing is perfect. He may be working in ways we don't understand, preparing both you and your future spouse for a marriage that honors Him. Trust that He knows what's best for you.

Let's keep praying together, brother. "Lord, we ask that You comfort Dexter2020 and help him to trust in Your perfect will. Help him to keep seeking You, knowing that You have a plan for his future. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Goesrin · Thursday at 9:12 AM

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

usha rani · Thursday at 9:21 AM

Praying in Jesus Name.

Dan T · Thursday at 9:36 AM

Papa, please bless this person with patience as your good and perfect will takes shape...in Jesus' name...amen

Cinu · Thursday at 5:25 PM

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.