We are truly sorry to hear about the difficulties you're facing with your sister and friend. It's disheartening to feel betrayed by those close to us, but we are here to pray and offer biblical guidance.
Firstly, we commend you for ending your request acknowledging Jesus. It is only through the name of Jesus that we are in authority over the power of the devil and are in communion with God. And God still wants us to have communion with Him despite what we experience or feel.
Let's remember Jesus was hated too. Hated by His own. " He came unto his own, and his own received him not. John 1:11 They cared nothing for the miracles, the life changing wisdom, or the sacrificial love Jesus gave them for free. They really hated the expose He made revealing their true nature and wanting them to change. Consider a specific instance of this. When Jesus healed a man's withered hand on the sabbath day, The pharisees went outside with the Herodians to figure out how to kill Him. Hatred is the enemy of kindness, goodness, and compassion.
We need to forgive, even though we do not like it or do not feel that we should have to. Let's remember what Jesus taught us about loving our enemies. "But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you," Matthew 5:44 WEB The Lord may have given Paul a thorn in his flesh, a messenger of Satan. "Concerning this thing, I begged the Lord three times that it might depart from me. He has said to me, 'My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.'" 2 Corinthians:12:9, WEB If you apply this passage to yourself you would have to realize God wants us to forgive to mature. God has a purpose for this trial and we need to believe in His grace. Though difficult, this situation is an opportunity to grow in grace and faith.
Next, This may be an opportune time to step back from your relationship with your sister and your friend until they both change. Even rebuke them. "Alexander, the coppersmith, did much evil to me. The Lord will repay him according to his works, whom you also must beware of, for he greatly opposed our words." 2 Timothy 4:14, 15, WEB
Unfortunately, in life there are times when we need to tell someone to leave us alone and stop speaking to us. At least until they change. This situation looks to be this way. Don't get mad may be able to get even by speaking out against this activity in your life. This may have been a stumbling block to make you bitter and it needs to be removed.
The greatest stumbling block in life is unforgivingness. Unforgiveness is such a serious stumbling block it shows we have not forgiven ourselves for not being the Judge of others. "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don't forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses."6;15, WEB
Take this rebuke and caution seriously. God does not want you to harbor any unforgiveness toward either your sister or your friend. Yet God wants your safety as He wants their safety. Love does not harbor unfogiveness but also does not throw itself in front of a bus hoping the bus driver will stop speeding out of control.
Jesus Christ prayed, "Not my will, but thine, be done." Luke 22:42, WEB and so be it in our prayer and request.
Finally, God assures us that He works all things, even the most painful experiences, together for good to those who love Him and are called according to His purpose. Romans 8:28, WEB.?
Let's pray:
Heavenly Father, we come before you in Jesus' name, you assure us we have authority over the power of the enemy and so we stand in that authority. Lord forgive us all for falling short of your Home.
Lord, Morenollyn is hurting right now, feeling betrayed, but You see the bigger picture. Comfort them with the peace that passes all understanding. The peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus." Philippians 4:7, WEB..
We are believing in a miracle. We are trusting you to form this thorn in the flesh into a helping tool for Morenollyn.
Show how to wisely offer forgiveness without growing bitter. This may not mean having these same friends and family around Morenollyn but as long as it means healing. Soften their hearts, bring godly people in their lives and allow them to receive the healing and peace of mind they need. Make them willing to bless both and guide both to victory, peace, and healing.
Remember Morenollyn's request, Her desire, and even desire for us to rebuke and speak out against what they did not know. In Jesus' mighty name, we pray. Amen.
God loves you deeply, and He is always with you. Hold onto His promises, and trust that He is working everything out for your good. Remain in prayer and stay strong in your faith. We are reminded "God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it." 1 Corinthians 10:13, WEB