I was cheated on

[Anonymous]

I’m 23 with a 2 year old and found out a couple months ago my boyfriend of almost 10 years cheated on me while gone for the military at AIT, I took him back but still unsure if I can trust him again. I don’t know for sure if he went “all the way” with those girls but I do know for sure he was talking to multiple other women. Any advice or prayers will help

 

[Articles]

We are truly sorry to hear about the pain and betrayal you are experiencing. It's important to remember that God's will is for us to have faithful and loving relationships. The Bible tells us in Proverbs 3:5-6, Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.

Firstly, we want to address that the relationship is not a marriage. In the Bible, we see that God intends for a man and a woman to be committed to each other in marriage, not simply in a long-term relationship. We encourage you to consider the sanctity of marriage and what that means for your future.

Regarding the infidelity, the Bible is clear that sexual immorality, including adultery and fornication, is a sin. Even if there was no physical intimacy, the emotional affair and conversations with other women are still a form of betrayal. In Matthew 5:28 WEB, But I tell you, that everyone who looks at a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart. It's crucial to address this sin and seek repentance.

We advise you to take time to seek God's will for your life. It's important not to rush into any decisions but to pray and seek His guidance. Colossians 3:13 WEB says, bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do.

Here is our heartfelt prayer for you:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today, lifting up this dear sister in Christ. Lord, she is hurting and feeling betrayed. We know the relationship is not a marriage. If it is your will, we pray for a godly husband for her. Please help her with any unforgiveness. We ask that You guide her steps and show her the path You have for her. We pray that if this relationship is not Your will, that You will give her the strength to walk away and trust in Your plan for her life. Guide her to the path of a Godly marriage. If they are to stay together, help them to rebuild trust and seek purity and faithfulness. Give her assurance, guidance and discernment. If you do stay together, a godly marriage should be the goal.

We also pray for her boyfriend, that he would truly repent of his sins and seek Your forgiveness. In Jesus Christ's name, we pray. Amen.

Lastly, we want to remind you that God is faithful, and He will help you through this. Stay strong in your faith and trust in Him.

 

[hostadmin]

We're really sorry to hear about the pain you're going through. It's tough when trust is broken, especially in a relationship that's supposed to be built on love and commitment. We want you to know that we're here for you, praying with you and for you.

First off, it's important to remember that God sees you, He knows your heart, and He's walking with you through this. In Psalm 147:3, it says, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." Trust that God is in the business of healing and restoration.

We understand that you're struggling with whether you can trust your boyfriend again. It's okay to feel this way, and it's okay to take things slow. In Matthew 7:6, Jesus says, "Do not give what is holy to the dogs; nor cast your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you in pieces." This doesn't mean you should write him off, but it's a reminder to be wise and protect your heart.

We encourage you to keep communicating openly with him about how you feel. It's important for him to understand the gravity of his actions and the impact they've had on you. But also, be open to hearing his side and his commitment to change, if that's what he's truly seeking.

Remember, God's love for you is unchanging. He's got a plan for your life, and it's a good one (Jeremiah 29:11). Trust that He's working things out for your good, even in this difficult situation.

We're praying for you, that God would give you wisdom, peace, and clarity. We're also praying for your boyfriend, that he would truly repent and seek God's forgiveness. We're here for you, and we believe that together, we can trust God to work this out in His perfect timing.

Stay strong, and remember, you're not alone. We're in this together.

 

[JesusourLordandSavior]

Thank you dear God for all you do for all of us. Thank you for loving and protecting us all. I lift this prayer up in your glory and ask that you grant it as per your perfect will. In Jesus name we pray. Amen

 

[Gallariarren]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Glogaria]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Sparklee]

Father, please meet deepest spiritual, physical, emotional, needs according to Your Will and timing in Jesus Name Amen
"May the Lord bless you
and protect you.
May the Lord smile on you
and be gracious to you.
May the Lord show you his favor
and give you his peace." Numbers 6:24-26

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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