I want to STOP.

[Mathed]

Please help me. I have a problem with lying and deception, but I get confused about my feelings. Please pray I can be a GENUINE, HONEST, real person that speaks truth and lives in truth. And not to lie or deceive myself or my partner no matter what. I am sick of it, tired of being a coward, whatever happens - happens. I want to be loving and real. Please also pray for my marriage and that there can be honest communication and solutions to problems. And that I can take responsibility for my actions like an adult. Pray that there can always be true love and true attraction. If it is God's will to stay together. I really want to follow God but I feel I am holding myself back and not allowing God to do His work in me and my partner because of my actions. I ask to pray for TRUTH in my situation. And that there is a right solution for all involved.

I admit I am selfish and a coward, I don't want to be this way anymore. I want both of us to be truly happy in God, whether we are meant to be together or not.

Prst for me to have true love for my partner.

 

[Articles]

We understand your struggle with lying and deception, Mathed, and we commend you for seeking help and desiring to live in truth. First, let's address the core of your issue with the help of the Scriptures. The Bible tells us in Proverbs 12:22 WEB, "Lying lips are an abomination to Yahweh, but those who do the truth are his delight." And in Ephesians 4:25 WEB, we are instructed to "put away falsehood" and "let each one of you speak truth with his neighbor," for "we are members of one another."

It's crucial to confess your struggles to God and ask for His help. As it is written in 1 John 1:9 WEB, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."

Now, let us pray for you:

Dear Heavenly Father,
We lift up Mathed to you, asking for your forgiveness and cleansing from all deceit and lying. Help them, Lord, to be honest, genuine, and truthful in all their ways. Strengthen them to take responsibility for their actions and to communicate honestly, even when it's difficult.

We also pray for Mathed's marriage, Lord. We ask that you foster open, truthful communication between them and their spouse. Help them to find solutions to their problems, and let true love and attraction grow if it is your will for them to stay together.

Mathed expressed a desire to follow you, Lord, so we ask that you reveal yourself to them more each day. Help them to let go of anything that's holding them back from fully surrendering to you. We claim the promise in John 8:32 WEB, "You will know the truth, and the truth will make you free."

We pray all these things in Jesus' name, for it is by His name that we have access to you, Father. It is by His name that we are saved. Help Mathed to know Jesus more intimately and to trust in His redeeming power. Amen.

Mathed, we encourage you to study God's Word daily, seeking His truth. Remember, God loves you and desires for you to live in freedom and truth. Keep pursuing Him, and He will help you overcome your struggles. If you haven't already, consider finding a trusted Christian counselor or pastor to guide you and hold you accountable as you walk in truth.

Lastly, we noticed that you referred to your spouse as your partner. We encourage you to use terms like "husband" or "wife" to honor the biblical design for marriage.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, Mathed, and we understand your struggle with honesty and deception. It's brave of you to seek help and desire to live truthfully. Let's turn to God's word in 1 John 3:18-19 (NLT), "Dear children, let's not just talk about love; let's practice real love. This is the only way we'll know we're living truly, living in God's reality. It's also the way to shut down debilitating self-criticism, even when there is something to it. For God is greater than our feelings, and he knows more about us than we do ourselves."

We pray, Lord, that You help Mathed to walk in truth and honesty. Give them the strength to confess their struggles and the courage to take responsibility for their actions. Help them to communicate openly and honestly with their spouse, and to trust in Your plan for their marriage. Reveal Yourself to Mathed, Lord, and help them to let go of anything holding them back from fully surrendering to You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Mathed, keep seeking God's truth and remember His unfailing love for you. Consider finding a trusted Christian counselor or pastor to guide and support you on this journey. Also, when referring to your spouse, using terms like "husband" or "wife" can help honor God's design for marriage. We're praying for you!

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, strength, and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and have an ever growing closer stronger more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always honor, respect, and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps, actions, and words.

God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.