I want to move on.

[Anonymous]

At first, my ex seemed like a great boyfriend, but after 6 months, he cheated on me. This caused a downward spiral in our relationship, and it also severely affected my mental health. I became very insecure, constantly comparing myself to other girls he talked to. My mental health got so bad that I thought I might have OCD. Even though he manipulated me and called me names, I still have love for him, and I’m struggling to move on. Please pray for me as I work through this difficult time, made even harder by the fact that I still see him every day in class and have to hear about how well he treats his new girlfriend, even though he didn't treat me well.

 

[Articles]

We are truly sorry to hear about the pain and struggle you are experiencing after the betrayal and mistreatment from your former boyfriend. It's important to remember that God's design for relationships is one of purity, respect, and love. The Bible tells us in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 WEB:

"Love is patient and kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn’t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."

The behavior of your former boyfriend is not a reflection of God's intent for relationships. Cheating and manipulation are clearly against biblical principles. It is important to walk away, to separate from this person as he has shown to be unrepentant so far. It is clear that he has moved on and therefore there is no need to be so attached.

Firstly, we must rebuke the idea that you have "love" for him. The feelings you have are likely confusion due to the trauma bonding that can happen after such an experience. In a godly relationship, love should be mutual and respectful. We are reminded in Ephesians 5:25, "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it." This is the standard of love we should seek in a relationship leading to marriage. Don't forget that any pre-marital relationship should be considered as courting for marriage. This concept of a boyfriend or girlfriend is a worldly concept and not a biblical one.

We also need to address the fact that you are still seeing him daily and hearing about his new girlfriend. It's crucial to set boundaries for your emotional well-being. Psalm 119:9-11 reminds us, "How can a young man keep his way pure? By living according to your word. I have sought you with my whole heart. Don’t let me wander from your commandments. I have hidden your word in my heart, that I might not sin against you."

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ lifting up our sister who is struggling to move on from a painful past. We pray that you will heal her heart, Lord, and help her to see herself through your eyes. Give her the strength to set boundaries and to walk away from this harmful situation. Help her to focus on your love and the plans you have for her future. May she find a Christian spouse that will love her as Christ loved the church.

We also pray that you will convict her former boyfriend of his actions and bring him to repentance if it is your will. We ask that you will help her to forgive him, not for his sake, but for hers, so that she can move forward in freedom and healing.

In the name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen."

Remember, it is only in the name of Jesus Christ that we can approach God the Father. Acts 4:12 reminds us, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" If you have not already, consider accepting Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior and trust in him for forgiveness and salvation.

Lastly, seek support from fellow believers and consider Christian counseling to help you through this difficult time. God has a plan and a purpose for your life, and this season will pass. Trust in him and his timing.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, and we understand how tough this is. It's like you've been walking through a storm, and it's hard to see the sun. But remember, God is always there, even in the storm. He loves you so much, and He wants the best for you.

We want to encourage you to focus on you. You've been through a lot, and it's okay to prioritize your healing. It's like when you're on a plane, and they tell you to put on your own oxygen mask before helping others. You can't pour from an empty cup, right?

Keep reminding yourself that you are a daughter of the King. You are loved, you are valued, and you are worthy. That boyfriend, he wasn't treating you the way you deserve to be treated. You deserve someone who loves you like Jesus loves the Church - sacrificially, patiently, and kindly.

We're going to pray for you again, okay? Let's ask God to help you see yourself through His eyes, to give you strength to set boundaries, and to fill your heart with His love. Let's also pray for your ex, that God would work in his heart too.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you up in prayer, dear sister, as you navigate through this challenging time. We are truly grateful that you have allowed us to stand in the gap and intercede on your behalf. As you journey towards healing and wholeness, we pray for God's comfort and strength to envelop you each day.

If you have seen progress in your journey to move on and have found peace and security in Christ, we would love for you to share your praise report with us. Your testimony could be a source of encouragement for many who are going through similar situations.

If, however, you find that you are still struggling and that your prayers have not yet been answered, we want you to know that we are still here for you. Do not hesitate to share an update on your situation, and we will continue to pray and believe with you for complete restoration and freedom.

We pray that God will bless you richly as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. May you find your identity and security in Him, and may His love and kindness bring healing to your heart and mind. We agree with you in prayer that any spiritual or mental strongholds would be broken, and that you would be completely set free from any lingering feelings or insecurities stemming from this past relationship. We pray that God would open your heart to receive His love and goodness, and that you would be filled with His peace, which surpasses all understanding.

In addition, we pray for wisdom and grace as you interact with your ex-boyfriend in class, and that God would shield your heart and mind from any further hurt or distress. May you find solace in the fact that God sees your pain, and that He is working everything out for your good. Trust in His perfect will and His flawless timing.

Remember, Jesus Himself prayed, "Father, if you are willing, take this cup from me; yet not my will, but yours be done" (Luke 22:42). We pray that you would find the strength to surrender your will and emotions to God, and that His perfect will would be accomplished in your life.

We agree in prayer that any plans the enemy has to steal, kill, or destroy your joy, peace, and future would be thwarted, and that you would emerge from this trial stronger and more resilient than ever before. You are a precious daughter of the King of Kings, and your worth is not determined by your past relationships or experiences.

Stand strong in the knowledge that we serve a God who heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds (Psalm 147:3). We declare that this is your portion and your inheritance in Christ Jesus.