I want to have close friends and friends and a boyfriend who goes to church

[LADreamer]

I want to have friends again like I used to before I got sick and got diagnosed with schizophrenia, brain waves that stops for a few minutes and lack of oxygen to the brain when I was born. I don't want to date young men anymore he dumped me after I told him to stop joking about religion and my love for him and about death and we were engaged so he broke up with me after I said that on a video call to him. So I don't want to date him again. I'll be friends with him but that's it and not more than friends. I want a grown up but not older than 39. I want friends again and close friends again. please I can't stand it anymore I hate been alone with two friends who visit me but not often enough. I used to LAN with my older brother and our friend Ryno who also stopped as well and my big brother sold the gaming laptop he got from our friend and bought a iPad to use and he immigrated to Australia with his family and left me behind to defend myself against my dad who always yelled at me and then he would apologize and be friendly and two days it would be peaceful and then start yelling at me when I still lived with my family in Kempton Park but after I got diagnosed he changed and promised me he won't fight with me again after I got sick and I used to have Asthma when I was a baby and in and out of hospital. I want a boyfriend with blue eyes and long black hair and someone I can go to church with me and go to my favorite church where Steven Furtick preaches and I miss my technology like my smartphone and my pre built pc that my brother built himself and my internet. I almost got human trafficked because a man only wanted to use me for my money because I was gullible enough to believe him. I want to less gullible and vulnerable at all or not at all. I want to be independent and be very successful and have my dream job. I want to be a pro female gamer on YouTube and be a web designer and a web developer and a games developer with a very good pay. And live on my own too please. this is very urgent. thank you for praying for me

 

[Articles]

We understand your deep desire for meaningful friendships and a godly relationship, LADreamer. Let us pray together and seek God's will for your life, guided by His Word.

Firstly, we commend you for seeking friends and a partner who shares your faith and attends church with you. The Bible encourages us not to be unequally yoked (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB), and we are glad to see you seeking a relationship that honors God.

Regarding your past relationship, it is wise to set boundaries and not pursue a relationship with someone who disrespects your faith and feelings. Proverbs 4:23 WEB tells us, "Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life." It is crucial to protect your heart and surround yourself with people who respect and build you up.

In seeking new friendships and a relationship, remember that God knows the desires of your heart. Psalm 37:4 WEB tells us, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart." Trust that God knows what is best for you and will provide in His perfect timing.

However, we must address that the focus on physical attributes, such as blue eyes and long black hair, should not be the primary concern when seeking a partner. Proverbs 31:30 WEB reminds us, "Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain; but a woman who fears Yahweh, she shall be praised." The same applies to men. Seek someone who loves and fears God, and who will encourage you in your faith.

We also want to address the importance of forgiveness. It seems there may be some resentment towards your father and brother. Remember, Ephesians 4:32 WEB tells us to "be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." Consider extending forgiveness, even if it is difficult.

Regarding your dreams and aspirations, we pray that God would guide your steps and grant you success. Proverbs 16:3 WEB says, "Commit your deeds to Yahweh, and your plans shall succeed." Trust Him with your dreams and He will make a way.

Finally, we noticed that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ in your request. It is only through Him that we have access to God. John 14:6 WEB tells us, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" We encourage you to put your trust in Jesus, and He will be your steadfast anchor.

Let us pray:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today, lifting up LADreamer. Thank You for her desire for godly friendships and a relationship that honors You. We ask that You would bring the right people into her life, people who will encourage her and help her grow in her faith.

Lord, we ask for healing from past hurts and for the ability to forgive those who have wronged her. Help her to focus on the inner qualities of a person, rather than outward appearances.

We also pray for her dreams and aspirations. Guide her steps and open doors for her to achieve her goals. Give her the skills and knowledge she needs to succeed.

Above all, we pray that LADreamer would come to know You deeper, Lord Jesus. May she experience Your love, peace, and joy in her life.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear your heart, dear one, and we're here for you. We've been where you are, longing for close friends and a godly relationship. We understand the pain of past hurts and the fear of being alone. But remember, God is always with you, and He's working everything out for your good (Romans 8:28).

We're praying for you to find the friends and boyfriend you desire, who share your faith and love for Jesus. We believe God will bring them into your life in His perfect timing. In the meantime, let's focus on growing in our relationship with Him. Jesus said, "I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me" (John 14:6). Trust in Him, and He will guide your steps.

Let's also pray for healing from past hurts. Forgive those who have wronged you, just as God has forgiven you (Ephesians 4:32). And remember, God sees your heart and knows your desires. He will provide for you according to His will (Psalm 37:4).

Let's trust in God's plan and keep seeking Him. He's got this, and He's got you. We're praying for you, sister. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Travis]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[flora]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[LADreamer]

Praying in Jesus Name.

thank you soo much

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, strength, and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and have an ever growing closer stronger more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always honor, respect, and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps, actions, and words.

God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.