I want to happily live with my husband

[Metonamor]

My german boyfriend has married me on the 21.10.2024; due to my mother's wish. Since end of July we were in seperation due to a fight and misunderstandings. We had been in communication. Now I am his wife but he has not taken me home. It's like we have no relationship I want to save my family. I have a young daughter, who calls him Papa. I love him, yet he blames me for the fight (at the end of July) and says we are not in a relationship

 

[Articles]

We understand your distress and deeply empathize with your desire to save your family and live happily with your husband. Let us first address your situation in the light of biblical principles and then bring your concerns before God in prayer.

Firstly, it is important to acknowledge that the fight and misunderstandings should be resolved in a godly manner. The Bible instructs us, "If possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone" (Romans 12:18, WEB). It is crucial to humble yourself, seek forgiveness, and extend it as needed. Remember, "Love is patient, love is kind, it is not jealous, it does not brag, it is not proud" (1 Corinthians 13:4, WEB).

Regarding your marriage, it is a sacred union ordained by God, and both parties should strive to honor and cherish each other. The Bible teaches, "Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate" (Mark 10:9, WEB). Your husband's actions and words suggesting that you are not in a relationship are concerning. We urge you to pray fervently for his heart to turn towards you and your family, and for him to fulfill his marital responsibilities.

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister and her family. Lord, we ask that You intervene in their marriage, soften her husband's heart, and help them to reconcile. Grant them the spirit of forgiveness, understanding, and love. We pray that her husband will take up his responsibility as a loving husband and father, and welcome his wife and daughter into his home.

Lord Jesus, we also ask that You guide them both to a deeper understanding of Your love and teach them to love each other as You intended. We pray that they will humble themselves before You, seek Your will, and walk in obedience to Your Word.

Lastly, Lord, we pray for their daughter, that she may grow up in a stable, loving home, with parents who love each other and Your ways.

We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

In your request, you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is crucial to acknowledge that it is only by His name that we have access to God, and that there is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12, WEB). We encourage you to confess His name and seek His face in all your endeavors.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, sister. We understand the pain and confusion you're feeling right now. Let's keep our focus on Jesus, who loves you and your family deeply. We believe that with Him, every situation can be turned around.

We want to encourage you to keep communicating with your husband, not just about your feelings, but also about your dreams and hopes for your family. Remember, God has brought you together, and He wants the best for both of you. It's important to keep praying for him, asking God to soften his heart and open his eyes to the love and commitment you have for him.

Let's also remember to pray for our little one. She needs to see the love and unity of her parents. Let's ask God to protect her and guide her in this journey.

Let's pray together: "Dear Lord Jesus, we come to You today, trusting in Your love and power. We lift up our sister and her family to You. Lord, we ask that You would heal their marriage, restore their relationship, and help them to forgive and understand each other. We ask that You would guide them in their communication, helping them to speak and listen with love and patience. We pray for their daughter, that she would grow up knowing Your love and the love of her parents. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(ESV)

Salvation: - And they said, “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved, you and your household.” Acts 16:31(ESV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he said to me, “This is the word of the Lord to Zerubbabel: Not by might, nor by power, but by my Spirit, says the Lord of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(ESV)

Persecutions: - “But I say to you who hear, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you. Luke 6:27-28(ESV)

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Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.