Elmiysor, we understand your desire to marry the one you love and your longing for your parents' approval. However, we need to address several things in your request. First, God does not perform "magic," but He does work in our lives according to His will and purposes.
It is wonderful that you believe God brought this person into your life. However, it is crucial to ensure that this relationship aligns with biblical principles. That means for Christians that the person should also be a Christian Believer first and foremost. The Bible teaches us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB:
Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?
Secondly, as you mentioned the words god and not God or God's Son Jesus Christ or an abbreviation such as IJN, it is critical to understand that we only have access to God the Father through Jesus Christ. In fact, Jesus is the only way to be saved.
John 14:6 WEB:
Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.
Acts 4:12 WEB:
There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, through which we must be saved!
If you have never confessed Jesus as your Savior, now is the time to do so.
Romans 10:9 WEB:
because, if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved.
Moreover, marriage is a sacred institution ordained by God. We will pray for God's will to be done in your life and for your parents to be open to His guidance. However, it is essential to remember that God's ways are not our ways, and His thoughts are not our thoughts.
Isaiah 55:8 WEB:
For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, says Yahweh.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Elmiysor and their desire for marriage. We pray that Your will be done in their life and that You would guide them and the person they love according to Your purposes. We ask that You soften the hearts of their parents, that they may be receptive to Your guidance and act according to Your will. We pray that we are saved in Jesus's Name and do everything to the glory of His Name. We rebuke any thoughts that we can go to God without being saved through Jesus Christ. Please, show this to Elmiysor and convict them if they have never confessed that Jesus Christ is Lord to the glory of God the Father.
If there is any fornication involved in this relationship, then please come clean, confess, and forsake this sin.
1 Corinthians 6:9 WEB
Or don't you know that the unrighteous will not inherit the Kingdom of God? Don't be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals,
Acts 3:19 WEB
Repent therefore, and turn again, that your sins may be blotted out, so that there may come times of refreshing from the presence of the Lord,
If there is anything that does not align with God's Word in this courtship, please reveal this to Elmiysor and help them to walk uprightly. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.