I want to end my marriage

[Anonymous]

I'm at the final breaking point in my marriage. My husband and I have been married for eleven years and I can't do it anymore. He's not a good man, and I have to lie to his face telling him that he is. For the past eleven years he's has been emotionally abusive to me, and I've gone a long with pretty much everything he says or does, even so far as allowing my emotionally and physically abusive mother in law deeply involved in our marriage. The last year I thought things were getting better between us, until I found out that he and my mother in law have been talking smack about me behind my back and basically saying that my husband doesn't owe me anything. You see, my husband has been in between jobs over the years and has had difficulty with them, he wants to move down to where his mother in law is, even though I've set a clear boundary of no cause of how I feel about her. Turns out, they were plotting behind my back to do that. My husband is telling me that it was just an idea and not to give it much thought, but I've seen the texts between him and his mom about me. I'm so done. I'm so over how he's treated me, how his mom has treated me, and this whole marriage. I've wanted things to work, but he refuses to do counseling or therapy, and refuses to go to church now. Please pray for me, God hates divorce but I'm miserable. What do I do? God help me.

 

[Articles]

We deeply empathize with your struggles and the pain you're experiencing in your marriage. God cares about your suffering and desires for you to have peace and joy. Let's seek His will together with the guidance of the Holy Spirit.

Firstly, we want to remind you of God's heart for marriage: "Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate" (Matthew 19:6 WEB). However, God also cares about your well-being and safety. Emotional abuse is not God's design for marriage, and it is not something to be tolerated or enabled.

It's crucial to set boundaries to protect your emotional and mental health. "Above all, keep your hearts secure, for from them flow the springs of life" (Proverbs 4:23 WEB). It's not wrong to seek distance from toxic behavior, even from a spouse or in-laws.

We are concerned that your husband refuses counseling, therapy, or attending church. These can be vital means of grace and help for a struggling marriage. "Where there is no counsel, the people fall; but in the multitude of counselors there is safety" (Proverbs 11:14 WEB).

We strongly encourage you to:

1. Seek godly counsel: Talk to a pastor or a Christian counselor about your situation. They can provide guidance tailored to your circumstances.
2. Set boundaries: It's okay to distance yourself from harmful behavior. You don't have to tolerate abuse.
3. Pray fervently: Trust God to lead you. He promises, "If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him" (James 1:5 WEB).

Let us pray together:

*Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You, lifting up our sister who is hurting in her marriage. Lord, You see her pain, You hear her cries. Please comfort her and guide her. Give her the wisdom to know what steps to take. Protect her from harm and draw her closer to You. Lord, we also pray for her husband. Open his heart to seek help and change. Soften his heart to love and cherish his wife as You intended. Please work in this situation for the good of both, and for Your glory. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.*

Lastly, continue to lean on God. He is your strength and refuge. "Be strong and courageous. Don't be afraid or scared of them; for the LORD your God himself is who goes with you. He won't fail you nor forsake you" (Deuteronomy 31:6 WEB).

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, sister. We understand the heartache and confusion you're feeling, and we want you to know that God sees you, He hears you, and He loves you deeply. Let's cling to Him together in this storm.

We're reminded of God's heart for marriage, "What God has joined together, let no one separate" (Matthew 19:6). But remember, God also desires your well-being. Emotional abuse isn't a part of His plan, and it's not something you should endure silently.

It's crucial to set boundaries to protect your emotional and mental health. As Proverbs 4:23 tells us, "Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it." It's okay to distance yourself from harmful behavior, even if it's from your spouse or in-laws.

We're concerned about your husband's refusal to seek counseling, therapy, or attend church. These can be vital steps towards healing and restoration. Let's encourage him to seek help, praying for his heart to soften and change.

Let's also pray for you, dear sister. God promises in James 1:5, "If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you." Trust in Him, and He will guide your steps.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You, lifting up our sister who is hurting in her marriage. Lord, You see her pain, You hear her cries. Comfort her, guide her, and give her wisdom. Protect her from harm and draw her closer to You. Lord, we also pray for her husband. Open his heart to seek help and change. Softening his heart to love and cherish his wife as You intended. Work in this situation for the good of both, and for Your glory. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Keep leaning on God. He is your strength and refuge. As Deuteronomy 31:6 tells us, "Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or scared, for the Lord your God himself is who goes with you. He won't fail you nor forsake you." Trust in Him, and He will see you through this trial. We're here for you, praying for you every step of the way.

 

[meena_]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Apelpiazo]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[BlessedbyGod]

I'm at the final breaking point in my marriage. My husband and I have been married for eleven years and I can't do it anymore. He's not a good man, and I have to lie to his face telling him that he is. For the past eleven years he's has been emotionally abusive to me, and I've gone a long with pretty much everything he says or does, even so far as allowing my emotionally and physically abusive mother in law deeply involved in our marriage. The last year I thought things were getting better between us, until I found out that he and my mother in law have been talking smack about me behind my back and basically saying that my husband doesn't owe me anything. You see, my husband has been in between jobs over the years and has had difficulty with them, he wants to move down to where his mother in law is, even though I've set a clear boundary of no cause of how I feel about her. Turns out, they were plotting behind my back to do that. My husband is telling me that it was just an idea and not to give it much thought, but I've seen the texts between him and his mom about me. I'm so done. I'm so over how he's treated me, how his mom has treated me, and this whole marriage. I've wanted things to work, but he refuses to do counseling or therapy, and refuses to go to church now. Please pray for me, God hates divorce but I'm miserable. What do I do? God help me.

Dear LORD Jesus,
I come in AGREEMENT and in prayer to You today LORD, as we honor Your word that tells us in (Matthew 18:20 --- For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them.)
LORD, we ask that You would hear their prayer, that is pertaining to their situation(s), and that this situation(s), would be resolved quickly, in the POWER of Your name, Jesus Christ, and in accordance to Your divine will, Amen. We thank you LORD, in advance for what You are about to do, as we give all the glory, honor and praise to You Almighty God the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit, Amen !!

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* NOTE: You MUST be born again and have faith in the blood of Jesus Christ and His FINISHED work on the cross, in order to see the Kingdom of God.** (see scripture below):

((John 3:3) -- 3 Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.))
((Ephesians 1:7)) -- 7 in whom we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, according to the riches of his grace))
((1 Corinthians 15:1-4)) -- 15 Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you the gospel which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand; 2 by which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain. 3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; 4 and that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures

There are only 2 choices: HEAVEN or HELL, please make the right choice (ETERNITY is FOREVER)!

Jesus Christ is the "ONLY" WAY, the TRUTH and the LIFE.

((John14:5-11) -– 5 Thomas saith unto him, Lord, we know not whither thou goest; and how can we know the way? 6 Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.))

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DOES THE BIBLE TEACH DISPENSATIONS ?!?!

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Thou shalt keep them, O Lord, thou shalt preserve them from this generation for ever.)

(Mark 13:31 --- Heaven and earth shall pass away: but my words shall not pass away.)

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[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)


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[Sanjoy Mudoi]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.