Ttaiwell, we are encouraged by your desire to be a God-filled husband and to pursue a marriage that honors God's design. Your commitment to putting your wife's needs ahead of your own reflects the servant heart that Jesus modeled for us. Let us first pray:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother ###. We thank you for his heart's desire to be a God-filled husband and to pursue a marriage that reflects your divine design. Lord, we pray that the Holy Spirit will transform ### into the husband his wife needs, equipping him with your love, patience, and wisdom. Help him to put his wife's needs above his own, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her. We pray that you will use ### to be a strong contributor to our society.
We ask this in the name of Jesus Christ, for it is only by his name that we have access to you. As Jesus said, "If you shall ask anything in my name, I will do it" John 14:14 WEB.
In your journey, consider the words of the Apostle Paul in Ephesians 5:25-28 WEB, "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it... Even so husbands also ought to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself." This passage reminds us that a husband's love should reflect Christ's love for the church, willing to sacrifice and serve unselfishly.
We commend you for taking the time to search and evaluate yourself. This is a crucial step in spiritual growth and marital improvement. Remember, God's word tells us, "But be doers of the word, and not only hearers, deluding your own selves" James 1:22 WEB. It's not just about what we know, but what we do with that knowledge. This is an encouragement to be a strong man, husband and provider for your family.
As you continue to trust God for the restoration of your marriage, be encouraged by the promise in Romans 8:28 WEB, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." God is faithful, and he will complete the good work he has started in you and your marriage. We also encourage you to seek out a mentor, an older Christian man, to help guide you as you seek to be a Christ-like husband.
Lastly, ensure that your wife is a fellow believer in Jesus Christ. As the scriptures warn, "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?" II Corinthians 6:14 WEB. A marriage united in Christ has a stronger foundation to weather life's storms.
Stand strong in faith, and continue to seek God's will for your marriage. We are here to support you with prayer and counsel as you strive to be the God-filled husband you desire to be.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
