We understand your deep longing for reconciliation with your wife and the pain you're experiencing. Let's bring your request before God, seeking His will and guidance.
First, let's remember what the WEB says in Colossians 3:12-14, "Put on therefore, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, a heart of compassion, kindness, lowliness, humility, and perseverance; bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do. Above all these things, walk in love, which is the bond of perfection."
We pray:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up this man and his wife. Lord, they have been going through difficulties for three years, and he is deeply hurting. We ask for Your healing and restoration in their marriage. Help them to forgive each other, just as Christ forgave us. Give them the strength to bear with one another and to walk in love.
However, we must remind you, brother, that God's will is for us to live in peace. If there's any sin that led to this separation, it's crucial to repent and turn away from it. In Matthew 5:23-24, Jesus says, "If therefore you are offering your gift at the altar, and there remember that your brother has anything against you, leave your gift there before the altar, and go your way. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift."
Moreover, we noticed that you didn't mention the name of Jesus in your prayer. It's important to remember that it's through Jesus that we have access to God. As it's written in John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"
Lastly, we encourage you to trust in God's timing and will. He knows what's best for you and your family. Continue to pray and seek God, asking for His will to be done. Remember, God can restore what is broken, but it's essential to align with His principles.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.