I Want My Husband Back ! Pray For An End To This Separation And For The Divorce To Be Recscinded...

[Deni0916]

I can't take this anymore, I'm going insane...all this not knowing how to act, mind games I feel like we are playing with each other. He's been calling me, he called me at midnight..we spoke. Directly but I ended th conversation quickly....today I said happy Father's Day to him, and told him I loved him, and he started sending me messages telling me about how he's working out, and tanning, and what a great weekend he had with his friends, and sending me pics of our old neighborhood, and of himself wearing a funny hat...I don't know what to do with this. I feel like he's just trying to keep me as a buddy, but im not going to make myself emotionally available to him for that, I am his wife, I'm not going to take a demotion. Either commit or quit completely...I'm so confused ! God help me, I'm so confused. I think he's just embarrassed to admit he wants to come home, because he initiated the divorce, and it was his actions that lead us here but I don't want to read to much into it because it might not be that at all, but I feel an enormous amount of pressure on me to say the right things and do the right things, I don't know now God is leading me ! Lord Jesus, I just want my family back, I hate this, it feels horrible...please keep me in your prayers, and please pray for my husband, may Gods spirit of restoration and reconciliation take hold of his heart and all pride and fear be eradicated. Fear and pride are the biggest things at work here. I'm scared too, 18 years and we still couldnt get it right, and he's hurt me so much, and I know he still has a lot of things to work on, as do I but divorce is not the answer, if we can just get to that understanding we can work out the rest, but this divorce can't happen, it's wrong it's not in Gods plan for us, and I feel convicted in my spirit about this. I'm sorry but there's no peace, if it was Gods will there would be...I believe that...

 

[Articles]

Our God of peace, you have taught us that in returning and rest we shall be saved, in quietness and in confidence shall be our strength: By the might of your Spirit answer this request, we pray of you, so we may be still and know that you are God; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

 

[Scroggymommy5]

Father, I lift up this confused wife and her husband to You. Father, the enemy has descended upon their home to rob, steal and destroy their marriage and ultimately their family. I ask that You open the eyes of this loving wife to see that the enemy is using confusion to separate her from You and Your Perfect Will. Help her to realize that Your Will is for marriage and family and that the enemy often uses our spouse to manipulate everyone involved. Please lead and guide her to seek You Lord and that in You she will find all peace and comfort that she will ever need. Also to seek Your Word and there she will find all answers. Father, wrap her in Your loving arms Lord as she navigates through this trial. Draw her into a close relationship with You. I ask this in Your Most Powerful Name. Amen.

 

[Don]

1 Peter 5:7

Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you. Pour your heart out to the Father in Jesus name. HE HEARS YOU. My wife and I have prayed for your request in Jesus name.

 

[shadowofleaves]

Heavenly Father, I stand and pray in agreement with this request. I lift up all hurting and broken marriages, including my own, to You in Jesus' name for healing and restoration according to Your perfect will. Amen.

 

[Deni0916]

I forgot to mention that before my husband and I had our conversation this afternoon, I woke up this morning and began reading my Bible.  I wasn't sure where to begin, but I know I was looking for a word from God, and I asked Him for this yesterday evening after my husband called me after midnight.  I opened my Bible to 2 Chronicles and my eyes fell to chapter 15, the first verse read "And the spirit of the God came upon Azariah..Verse 7 reads "But as for you, be strong, and do not give up for your work will be rewarded."  I went back and read chapter 14 and I received this powerful word in verse 11 : "Lord, there is no one like you to help the powerless against the mighty.  Help us. O Lord our God, for we rely on you, and in your name we have come against this vast army.  O Lord you are our God; do not let man prevail against you."  Shortly after my separtion began in April, I went into fervent prayer over my husband, and I felt that at that moment God laid restoration on my heart.  I had every reason to just be happy he was gone, and accept that God was moving him out of my life because he desired better for me, but I felt like God was telling me that this was not his plan, and for me to be obedient by continung to pray because he was going to use me as a tool of reconciliation.  I was watching the series the Bible at the time and it was at the scene of the fiery furnace, and as you may all know Abdendigo  was also named Azariah, which means one who is helped by God. He was the son of Obed, which means to restore, or encourages.  I immediately took this name and wrote it in my Bible as the name of my son that I have been asking God to bless my husband and I with for many years.  Originally I had chosen the name Elijah, but on this day I clearly heard God tell me that my husband and I would have our son, and his name would be Azariah. So opening the bible to that pasage today was like a confirmation from God that what he promised me would come to pass, but that I must pray without ceasing.  

 

[MerciMe]

Come unto me, all ye that labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light. Matthew 11:28-30

Just think that is Jesus Christ personally calling you to Himself. Oh, how He cares for you. I pray you will really take all your doubts and fears to Him right now. Just count on Him to do exactly what He says He will do and have faith from now on that you are not alone and without hope. Father God, I pray in the name of Jesus Christ that You will answer the cries of all sincere hearts that are seeking You at this time. Bless them Lord I pray. Amen.

 

[Don]

PLEASE WATCH THIS SHORT VIDEO

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dFKFQ61dgdg

 

[Wordship5091]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

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