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Angie68
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My husband Wesley and I had been married for 23 years. We have been having problems with our in laws. We had been having a lot of disagreements on a lot of things. One day I had come home and he had moved all his stuff out of the house. For the longest I did not know why he moved out. He still is nice to me, and when we talk we stay fussing. I have been praying for my husband, and putting him on the prayer list at church. Yesterday it hit me like a ton of bricks why my husband really moves out. My husband is 15 years older than me. He is gone through midlife crises. I felt so bad, because I love my husband and I knew we were getting to the point he didn't talk to me in the house, but he would tell the in-laws things. So I went and research this topic and that's what it is. So today I took a different approach with him. I ask him how he slept last night. I ask him did am I disturbing you? So I told him I have a second job. I started telling him what I am trying to do to clear these bills that I ran up. We started having a nice conversation. He started telling me how he is afraid he want have any money when it time for him to retire. He said he did not want to be like his sister not having any food to eat in the house. I ding him that I would never let that happen to us. He said he see people young then him making less money and have their stuff in order. I told him I thought we would be enjoy each other company with whatever time God still have up on this earth. Then He said I try to tell you but you never listen to me. I told him that’s not true. I just thought having a piece of job was better than having none. So we ready had a good talk for the first time without us getting mad at each other. I thought I had for filled my wifely duties with him under Gods word. But he is scared that he is getting older. So he is trying to live like he is 25 years old. I want yawl to pray for me (Angelique) and my husband (Wesley) that God will send him back home to me. We still love each other very much. And pray that I can give my husband encourage words so he can love God, himself, and me again. Thanks and may God Bless all who said prayer for my marriage.
