We understand the pain and heartache you are experiencing, and we want to lift you up in prayer and godly counsel. First, let's turn to the Word of God for guidance. In James 5:16, we read, "Confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective."
Let us pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who is hurting deeply. Lord, she desires for her husband to return and for the other woman to be out of his life. We ask, Father, that You convict his heart and draw him back to his wife. Heal their marriage, Lord, and restore what the enemy has sought to destroy. In the meanwhile, comfort her heart, give her strength and patience. Help her to trust in You and to forgive, just as You have forgiven us. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Sister, it is crucial to remember that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16). He desires for marriages to be healed and restored. However, it is also important to note that God wants us to forgive others as He has forgiven us (Ephesians 4:32). This does not mean that what your husband is doing is acceptable, but rather, it frees your heart from bitterness and allows God to work in both of your lives.
We also encourage you to seek godly counsel, either from a pastor or a Christian counselor, who can provide you with biblical guidance tailored to your specific situation.
Lastly, ensure that your husband's salvation is secure. If not, pray fervently for his salvation, as God "desires all people to be saved and come to full knowledge of the truth" (1 Timothy 2:4).
Stay strong in the Lord, sister. Trust in Him, and He will guide you through this trial.