I want my brother to move out of our home.

[Anonymous]

My husband recently let my brother move in with us. My husband drives trucks and is away a lot. My brother has been living in CA for around 30+years supposedly following his dream and pursuing an acting career. He’s never really had a job and has lived with females and others off and on. He was supposed to be going to AL to live with our mother who has at least 3 or 4 empty bedrooms and a house that is paid for. While my husband and I rent and live in much smaller accommodations with our teenage son. Some kind of way he detoured and instead of going to AL he made his way to Georgia. We had just come back from NC when I received a phone call from him, mind you this is a new phone number so later found out that my youngest sister had given it to him. He was about to be put out of a hotel and at first just needed money which I sent then my husband heard him on the phone and decided we could try and help him. I have two other siblings both with large homes, empty rooms and who are far more financially able than my husband and I , both said no that he could not move in with them. He is lazy and still on that childhood stuff. He eats all the time, stays up late listening to pod cast and has used all my personal candles that I have used to pray with. He is manipulative and I want him to leave. I’m not comfortable and my husband and I have enough going on financially without him being him. What can I pray for him to leave? There are so many more details that I have left out, that’s just to much to type. I just need God to move him from our home and send him to AL where he was supposed to be going . My mom stays up half the night and so does he. I feel it would be better for me and my household. I hate confrontation I just want him to leave know in peace.

 

[Articles]

Let's bring this situation before the Lord in prayer, seeking His will and guidance. Firstly, it's important to acknowledge that God cares about every detail of our lives, including our living situations and family dynamics. As believers, we are called to live in harmony with one another and to bear each other's burdens.

Let's pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this sister who finds herself in a difficult situation. Lord, You know the details of her heart and the struggles she is facing with her brother living in her home. We ask for Your wisdom and guidance in this matter.

Father, we pray that You would soften her brother's heart and open his eyes to the burden he is placing on his sister and her family. We ask that You would provide a way for him to move to Alabama, where he was originally intended to go. Lord, we know that You are able to make a way where there seems to be no way.

We also pray for this sister, that You would give her the strength and courage to have an open and honest conversation with her brother and her husband about her feelings and concerns. Lord, help her to speak the truth in love, as Your Word instructs us in Ephesians 4:15:
"But speaking truth in love, we may grow up in all things into him, who is the head, Christ."

Father, we ask that You would provide for this family's financial needs, that they would not be strained by the additional burden of supporting her brother. We pray for her husband, that You would give him discernment and wisdom in this matter as well.

Lord, we also pray for her brother's salvation and for a change in his heart. We know that there is no other name by which we can be saved than the name of Jesus Christ.

In Ephesians 4:28, it reads:
"Let him who stole steal no more; but rather let him labor, working with his hands the thing that is good, that he may have something to give to him who has need."

We pray that her brother would seek honest work during the day and be considerate to the family during at night. We pray he would become reborn his spirtuality to clean from his manipulative ways and rid him of his childhoodness and become like a new creature.
"Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new." (WEB, 2 Corinthians 5:17)

We ask this in Jesus' name. Amen.

Lastly, we encourage this sister to remain steadfast in prayer and to trust in the Lord's timing and provision. God is faithful, and He will direct her steps as she seeks Him with all her heart. We encourage her brothers and sisters in Christ to seek the counsel of other believers alongside her in making this sensitive decision. May God heal this sister's relationship with her brother and restore peace for this sister's family in her house.

 

[hostadmin]

Dear sister, we're here for you. We understand the burden you're carrying, and we want you to know that you're not alone. We've been praying for you and your family, seeking God's will in this situation.

We've been asking God to soften your brother's heart, to open his eyes to the strain he's putting on you and your family. We've been believing for a way to open up for him to move to Alabama, where he was initially supposed to go. We trust that God can make a way where there seems to be no way.

We've also been praying for you, dear sister. We're asking God to give you strength and courage to have an open and honest conversation with your brother and husband about your feelings and concerns. We're praying that you would speak the truth in love, as Ephesians 4:15 tells us.

We're also believing for God's provision for your family's financial needs. We're praying that you wouldn't be strained by the additional burden of supporting your brother. We're asking God to give your husband discernment and wisdom in this matter as well.

Most importantly, we're praying for your brother's salvation. We're asking God to draw him to Himself, to change his heart, and to help him become a new creature in Christ. We're believing for a spiritual rebirth in him, a turning away from his manipulative ways and childish behavior.

We're encouraging you to remain steadfast in prayer, to trust in God's timing and provision. He is faithful, and He will direct your steps as you seek Him with all your heart. We encourage you to seek the counsel of other believers alongside you in making this sensitive decision. May God heal your relationship with your brother and restore peace for your family in your home.

Let's keep lifting this up to the Lord together, dear sister. We're in this with you. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Usfimer]

Dear sister, we're here for you. We understand the burden you're carrying, and we want you to know that you're not alone. We've been praying for you and your family, seeking God's will in this situation.

We've been asking God to soften your brother's heart, to open his eyes to the strain he's putting on you and your family. We've been believing for a way to open up for him to move to Alabama, where he was initially supposed to go. We trust that God can make a way where there seems to be no way.

We've also been praying for you, dear sister. We're asking God to give you strength and courage to have an open and honest conversation with your brother and husband about your feelings and concerns. We're praying that you would speak the truth in love, as Ephesians 4:15 tells us.

We're also believing for God's provision for your family's financial needs. We're praying that you wouldn't be strained by the additional burden of supporting your brother. We're asking God to give your husband discernment and wisdom in this matter as well.

Most importantly, we're praying for your brother's salvation. We're asking God to draw him to Himself, to change his heart, and to help him become a new creature in Christ. We're believing for a spiritual rebirth in him, a turning away from his manipulative ways and childish behavior.

We're encouraging you to remain steadfast in prayer, to trust in God's timing and provision. He is faithful, and He will direct your steps as you seek Him with all your heart. We encourage you to seek the counsel of other believers alongside you in making this sensitive decision. May God heal your relationship with your brother and restore peace for your family in your home.

Let's keep lifting this up to the Lord together, dear sister. We're in this with you. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Amen and thank you

 

[Bukisonan]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[Nyrwaynn]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you and your family up in prayer, dear sister in Christ. We are humbled that you have given us the privilege to pray on your behalf and stand in agreement with you in this situation.

We pray that the Lord has begun to work in your brother's heart and circumstances, and that you have seen improvements. If your brother has moved out or if you have seen progress, we would love for you to share a praise report with us all. Your testimony could be an enormous encouragement to others in similar situations.

If your brother is still living with you and the circumstances remain challenging, please do not hesitate to post your request again as a new entry. We want to continue standing with you in prayer and believe that God is at work in your life.

Remember, God's timing is perfect. We pray that He grants you peace, patience, and wisdom as you navigate this situation. We also pray that He provides your husband and you with the spiritual, emotional, and financial strength you need at this time.

We declare breakthroughs in Jesus name, trusting that God will make a way where there seems to be no way. He is faithful, and we believe that He will work all things out for your good and His glory. Keep seeking Him, keep trusting Him, and keep praying. We are with you in prayer.

May God bless you and your family as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.