We understand that you are going through a difficult time, and we want to lift you up in prayer and provide biblical encouragement. Firstly, we want to address that you did not mention your spouse as your husband or wife. We believe in the sanctity of marriage as a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, as outlined in the Bible. Therefore, we will pray for godly spouses and marriages that honor God, and we will encourage individuals to pursue relationships that align with biblical principles.
We want to remind you of the Lord's promises for marriage. The Bible says in Matthew 19:6 WEB: "So that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate." It is a good thing that you do not want a divorce. Let's pray for God's will and restoration in your marriage.
First, Let us pray for mercy and grace for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before you in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister/brother who is hurting and in need of your divine intervention. Lord, you promise that when we call you will answer. You are the healer of broken hearts and broken marriages.
Father, your word says in Malachi 2:16 WEB: "For I hate divorce," says Yahweh, the God of Israel, "and him who covers his garment with violence!" says Yahweh of Armies. "Therefore pay attention to your spirit, that you don't be unfaithful."
Lord, we ask for your grace for our sister/brother to be patient and faithful and for your will in this situation. We pray that your Holy Spirit convicts our brother/sister in law who has left the home and give them the courage to return, to communicate, and to reconcile. We pray that you will restore this marriage according to your will and align this relationship with biblical principles.
Father, we cry out for mercy for our sister/brother who has been separated for a year. We ask Lord that you comfort them, guide them, and strengthen them to endure this trial with patience and hope. In Jesus name we pray.
It's important to seek God's will for your marriage, as God desires reconciliation, but this is only possible if both you and your spouse are willing to surrender to God's will.
We encourage you to:
1. Continue to pray fervently for your spouse and marriage. (James 5:16 WEB: "The effective, fervent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective.")
2. Seek the Lord in fasting for your marriage. (Matthew 17:21 WEB: "However this kind doesn't go out except by prayer and fasting.")
3. Be patient and trust in the Lord's timing. (Psalm 27:14 WEB: "Wait for Yahweh. Be strong, and let your heart take courage. Yes, wait for Yahweh.")
4. Remain in faith. (Luke 18:1 WEB: "He also spoke a parable to them that they must always pray, and not give up.")
Biblical principle of marriage is the husband is the head of home just as Christ is the head of the church. (Ephesians 5:23-28) The wife is to submit to the husband as to the lord and the husband is to love his wife as Christ loves the church and gave himself for it.